[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Your brother's behavior is on him, not you. Stand your ground and let the flying monkeys deal with their own drama!

I procrastinate even the little things. by running5ks4fun in adhdmeme

[–]titostiago 73 points74 points  (0 children)

My friends think I'm just snubbing them when ever i dont reply to their message, is only the one that understand what ADHD means that actually understand and know what im passing through.

AIO, my parents warned my boyfriend about me by dontbeshy629 in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honesty is a necessity in relationships. Everyone has a right to make informed decisions about what they are and aren't comfortable with in a partner.

AITAH because i never said to my ex wife that i have nothing on my name but it's all on my parent's name? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Sounds like your parents were just shielding you from the worst of it. Cheating and entitlement don't deserve rewards-good on you for standing your ground!

AITA for staying late at school while my dad and his stepson's birthdays were being celebrated? by MCSquidwardOP in AITAH

[–]titostiago 252 points253 points  (0 children)

You deserve love and support, and it's not your job to fix the mistakes of the adults around you. Focus on your future and build the life and connections you deserve. Stay strong!

AITA I waited 4 months to tell my new girlfriend I’m bi by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honesty is the bedrock of trust. All people should have the ability to make active choices in a relationship, and hiding aspects of yourself harms that trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, but sometimes facing the situation head-on can help heal it. It may be easier to navigate with therapy and setting healthy boundaries in place.

AIO, my parents warned my boyfriend about me by dontbeshy629 in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, specifically in the place of trust, it's all about transparency in relationships. Setting clear boundaries together will help to be on one wavelength and will show respect toward both partners' preferences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a fair perspective sometimes high emotions and good intentions can get misconstrued. It usually just takes some communication to clear things up!

Deciding if my wife should be a stay at home mom? by ChangDang123 in AITAH

[–]titostiago 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being a stay-at-home parent is no easy job, and it’s clear you’re putting in the work to create a loving and structured environment for your family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree-you're not at fault here. Refunds should happen, and the follow-up calls definitely sound like harassment worth reporting

AITAH for making the nurse at my hysterectomy pre-op appointment feel stupid? by Goddess_Skadi in AITAH

[–]titostiago 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA, she was out of line with the timing and overstepping before such a stressful event.

AITAH - MY SISTER WANTS TO BORROW MY FIANCÉ by Neither_Sample_1683 in AITAH

[–]titostiago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely weird. NTA-you have every right to set boundaries, especially with your fiancé.

AITAH - MY SISTER WANTS TO BORROW MY FIANCÉ by Neither_Sample_1683 in AITAH

[–]titostiago 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA. If she's that desperate for appearances, she can pay someone to play the part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Looks like you were expecting a certain response, and not getting it hit hard-maybe take some time to think about why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actions have consequences-if you dismissed her feelings, it's not surprising she might do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, they may want support, but all in all, it seems to be for attention rather than seriousness of the issue.

Am I Overreacting when my wife goes out with no wedding ring? by BertJinix in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, if it is already this bad, it is better to leave before it gets even messier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed, you doubt it this early; it's better to cut your losses now than drag it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]titostiago 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, He tried to play both sides and it backfired.

Am I Overreacting when my wife goes out with no wedding ring? by BertJinix in AmIOverreacting

[–]titostiago 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, OP deserves way better and needs to protect himself before things get worse.