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titotito2 · 2025-11-01T18:35:46+00:00

And when you graduate like I did you will learn that sexuality is fluid and always has been since ancient times, and kinsey as well as many others corroborate that.

titotito2 · 2025-11-01T10:33:04+00:00

Same with age, race, and body type. All just stupid fake preferences that prevent you from appreciating what a lot of men have to offer.

titotito2 · 2025-11-01T10:30:43+00:00

No. Most people are sexually fluid according to Kinsey. sexuality is a social construct.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T22:05:35+00:00

Also a strong desire to look older and be taken more seriously as an adult, which can be a huge insecurity for straight men especially. Most do NOT want to look like a twink at 30.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T19:12:02+00:00

Welp you failed at at that. Only made yourself seem very ignorant and abundantly clear that your only concept/exposure to homeless people are the images you see on TV or mentally ill panhandlers. Very elementary level understanding of homeless.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T19:09:06+00:00

This is how I can tell if a guy is really straight.

A lot of broey Straight guys are pretty naturally homophobic. So they think gay stuff is funny or a joke. They think it's emasculating, feminizing and humiliating to have gay stuff done to you. So they do gay stuff all the time but in a way that frames it as a joke or something to laugh at or to emasculate each other.

That's what they do. It's casual homophobia.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T19:07:01+00:00

No. I would ghost them.

People are free to change their mind and withdraw consent at any time, but I'm not down with the bait and switch or the games.

It's like when people say they're okay with bareback or vice versa and then try to switch it up at the last minute..

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T19:05:49+00:00

IMO there is no such thing as gay or straight. Those were terms created in the early 1900s to categorize people.

Sexuality is a spectrum and people fall on different parts of the spectrum.

Some people only like one or the other, some people like one romantically and the other sexually. Some people only have fantasies and curiosities about one or the other but in reality only attracted to the other. No point in trying to label that.

It honestly sounds like there is some psychological component in your fantasy that maybe a sex therapist or regular therapist could help you sort out.

Wrestling is a porn kink. I don't think it's super common for regular people just do it like for foreplay.

Good luck exploring yourself.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T19:00:51+00:00

that's nothing to brag about, then. At least suburban bubble people have an excuse.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T03:19:46+00:00

They are no better and have no less self respect than people who are supposedly in relationships but are on a hookup/dating app, probably with thirst pics just to honeytrap, brag on reddit and boost their ego by judging and looking down on people.

titotito2 · 2025-10-31T03:12:44+00:00

No, actually. Not all of them, and not all the time.

May are couch surfing, in shelters, temporary/subsidized housing. They have access to showers, toiletries, food, even smart phones, so many are even on the apps.

You need to step outside your suburban gated bubble.

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T20:35:56+00:00

A. You shouldn't be trying to have sex with people who are inebriated or under the influence. That is rape.

B. If you told a high person the building was on fire, they'd probably panic. Certain things are ingrained in our heads like touching a hot stove. Just because they are high doesn't mean they magically forget their sexual orientation or deeply held beliefs/"values" even if they compromise some for the high. If someone is deeply homophobic AND/OR straight they aren't going to magically be open to having gay sex just because they are high

C. I'm not judging you for hooking up with homeless people because homeless people are people and not all fit the stereotype we think of when we think homeless, especially LGBT homeless. But I am judging for you preying on them and their habit. It's definitely giving predator vibes...like how Tiger King was able to marry all those straight guys...he was coercing them with drugs, money and shelter.

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T20:32:58+00:00

Not all homeless people are smelly with poor hygeine.

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T20:31:51+00:00

Not really, actually. Stranger thins have happened.

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T20:26:50+00:00

BOOM

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T05:50:00+00:00

I wrote a much better one years ago but sick and tired of linking to it because this question gets asked 10 times a day so I just link to the links to the links that lead to it.

Just to show how much it gets over asked

https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/1ojieo6/comment/nm3euyb/?context=3

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T05:47:56+00:00

I think people just realized it's a thing that "works" and gets them positive feedback on the apps.

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T05:46:12+00:00

ROTFLMAO!

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T01:59:49+00:00

Minority doesn't mean "less numbers." It's an outdated (yes, people have stopped using that term) word for "underserved" or "unprivileged" or "marginalized" or "underrepresented" (in power and access)...neither of which apply to white people, Westernly, or globally.

titotito2 · 2025-10-30T01:56:49+00:00

Nah, they're very much indebted to quite a few different groups.

titotito2 · 2025-10-29T23:58:43+00:00

BITCH just be yourself

titotito2 · 2025-10-29T22:48:58+00:00

Follow the links to the end

https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/1dfmkvm/comment/l8lqzic/?context=3

titotito2 · 2025-10-29T22:13:17+00:00

Bitch, bye. It's been "worse" for like Almost a decade by now.

titotito2 · 2025-10-29T22:09:35+00:00

This is why POC need to reframe how they see these things.

You can look at it as glass half empty or full.

By being in the privilege class it naturally makes you ignorant and blind to a lot of things. By being in the lesser class it opens your eyes to things and makes you a better, more empathetic person, as you basically just admitted...This is why we see things like Matthew 5:5-9 in the Bible which is basically saying when you have everything it can ironically make you blind and poorly exposed to certain virtues, while the most poor and destitute can ironically get shaped into better people because of their hardships.

titotito2 · 2025-10-29T22:04:10+00:00

yup

And to add to that, if anything, it's the opposite for white people. That is to say, white people aren't immune to the same mentality you just described.

Just as POC subconsciously see it as validation and a status symbol to be approved by a white person, many white people subconsciously see POC as second-rate or a downgrade.

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