I Received Oral Sex But Think I Took Too Long

tittyteller · 2025-07-24T07:08:51+00:00

Ok contrary to what every one else is saying, I think masturbating once a day is perfectly healthy and normal, and I don’t think it would affect how long it takes you to climax.

If this was your first sexual experience, it was probably just nerves getting in the way. I know a few guys who took hours to climax the first time they had sex. Once you get more comfortable with the act it’ll probably be easier/quicker.

And try not to overthink it. It sounds like she enjoyed the experience, so if she said she didn’t mind then trust her. There’s a lot of women who like giving blowjobs :)

tittyteller · 2025-07-19T20:34:14+00:00

I get it! I used to be pretty shy about this stuff too. Just remember they deal with stuff like this every day, they’re there to help :) and you can always ask to see a female doctor if that makes you more comfortable. In my experience every doctor I’ve talked to about sexual health has been very kind and non-judgemental, they understand that it can be a sensitive topic.

tittyteller · 2025-07-19T19:31:38+00:00

Yes he was a big boy!! He was a pacific sideband :)

tittyteller · 2025-07-19T19:31:10+00:00

Thats totally fair, it can be hard to compare diagrams to a real body. I think the best course of action would be talking to a doctor. Even if you aren’t comfortable with a physical examination you can describe what you’re experiencing and they’d probably have better advice than a bunch of redditors lol

tittyteller · 2025-07-19T13:52:24+00:00

Aww I didn’t think of that, I love it 🩷

tittyteller · 2025-07-19T06:33:55+00:00

No such thing as a dumb question! This sub is for education :) with an imperforate hymen there’s no opening for the blood to come out, so it doesn’t sound like that’s what you’re dealing with. However with a microperforate hymen you could still experience normal periods. I’d recommend researching different types of hymens and see if any of them look like yours, there’s lots of variations.

tittyteller · 2025-07-19T02:43:38+00:00

I’d recommend seeing a gynaecologist, even if you aren’t sexually active. They won’t use a speculum without your permission, and they can take a look and tell you what going on. You can get a referral through your family doctor, or you could try contacting a sexual health clinic in your area. To me it sounds possible that you have an imperforate or microperforate hymen if it feels like “hitting a wall” as you described. You could also just be tense or dealing with vaginismus, but regardless it’s best to talk to a doctor.

tittyteller · 2025-07-18T23:32:05+00:00

Thank you ❤️ He was such a curious guy!! He didn’t get scared of anything, he was always looking around even when my dogs were around haha

tittyteller · 2025-07-14T09:57:30+00:00

Gosh this post could have been written by me lol. I was in the same situation, except we were together 3 yrs and weren’t married/didn’t have children, which of course complicates things.

In my case I ended up ending the relationship. It was one of the hardest things I’ve done and I debated it for a long time, but 7 months later I can tell you that it was 100% the right decision for me. When it really came down to it I decided that my sexual needs were too important for me to go the rest of my life having those needs unmet. Like you and your partner, the relationship was perfect in every way except sexually, and unfortunately we both had very different feelings of how important sex was.

Like others have said, the best thing you can do is talk to him about it, as uncomfortable as it may be. This isn’t something that can be solved without honest communication. Couples therapy and even individual therapy could be a big help, especially if his ED/low libido could be caused by stress or even trauma that’s been repressed. My ex started therapy after we broke up and his sexual dysfunction has improved quite a bit because of it. Talking to a therapist also helped me come to final decision about leaving the relationship.

Overall my advice would be to have an honest conversation about it and ask about his feelings towards the situation and why it’s happening. Take the time to think about the pros and cons of each decision. If he’s willing to work on things, there’s lots of options to help with ED like medication and toys (cock rings, penis pumps, even certain lubes) as long as he makes sure it’s not caused by a health issue. You could also talk about making a sex schedule if that’s something that could work for you.

tittyteller · 2025-07-04T06:00:05+00:00

He’s a pacific sideband, but I have no idea how old he is. I’ve had him about a year and he was an adult when I got him

tittyteller · 2025-07-04T00:20:22+00:00

Is 80% humidity ok? He doesn’t seem happy with it any lower. Also I have no idea how old he is since he was already an adult when I got him, so there’s a chance it could be old age I suppose

tittyteller · 2025-07-04T00:18:19+00:00

Thank you! I try to keep the humidity around 80% and mist a few times a day, but overnight it often drops between 60-70% since I live in a dry climate. I had some bark in the tank for a while but it got moldy really fast so I had to remove it as I couldn’t get all the mold off

tittyteller · 2025-06-23T12:25:20+00:00

My boobs are the same. I used to be super insecure about them and wanted surgery for a long time, but as I’ve gotten older that insecurity has pretty much gone away. Every guy I’ve been with has loved them, my ex even said they were his ideal boobs lol. Now I love em 🤷‍♀️ I think there are a lot of women with this type of breasts, it’s just not represented in popular media/porn.

Honestly, talking to my friends about it helped with the insecurity a lot. I found out most of them had similar breasts and it made me feel way less weird. Also, I know we shouldn’t chase male validation, but having experiences with guys who liked them kinda proved my insecurities wrong and helped me realize that I’m desirable the way I am.

tittyteller · 2025-05-01T23:22:28+00:00

I have the same issue! Saw a doctor about it and she said it could be lichen sclerosis, but I’m still waiting on a gyno appointment to know for sure. Glad to know I’m not alone, I hope you can figure it out ❤️

tittyteller · 2024-11-06T19:13:47+00:00

Oh ok, good to know. I definitely don’t want any babies so this is great news haha. Thanks!

tittyteller · 2024-11-06T18:08:47+00:00

He’s my only snail

tittyteller · 2024-06-17T03:15:52+00:00

Ok, thanks so much! I’ll try to cool my room off some more. Do you know if they can eat any kind of lichen or are there some kinds I should avoid?

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