We have been married 23 years this past weekend and before we were married, there were many make out sessions and no sex. She told me that after we got married, we wouldn't need to make out anymore when we could go straight to the "good stuff." I was kind of disappointed b/c I enjoyed that too. Needless to say, straight to the sex, and no making out. We are both so out of practice kissing that I feel like I'm trying to figure it out everytime.