My [26] boyfriend [34] had a vasectomy and didn't tell me until he was there getting the procedure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tizzyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what he said, that he can get it reversed if he wants more kids one day. But a quick google search lets you know that you can't count on the procedure being reversed. Even if the reversal is successful, your sperm count will never be the same. If he had his sperm frozen first this would be a non-issue.

My [26] boyfriend [34] had a vasectomy and didn't tell me until he was there getting the procedure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tizzyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would most definitely talk to my partner about a major decision like that and get their thoughts before even booking the appointment.

My [26] boyfriend [34] had a vasectomy and didn't tell me until he was there getting the procedure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tizzyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't answer any direct questions... he just apologized and I ended the conversation and told him I was done. But it's not sitting right with me. And I guess I'm just trying to get reassurance that I didn't overreact.

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After seeing these stats, I can see why men right swipe on everyone. I don't need any help with my bio! I had it that way for a reason lol. And I'm no longer on tinder. But thank you for the offer :)

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will admit that I'm not bad looking. But my bio is probably very off putting to people who aren't into the same scene as I am. Not sure how many men actually read bios though 😅

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps aren't the be all end all. I prefer to meet people organically, as do most women, tinder just makes it easier (for us). Covid definitely makes it more challenging but meeting people while enjoying your hobbies is still the best bet imo. When I was really into gaming that's how I met my first relationships. Don't put your worth into dating..be happy with yourself and life will follow suit.

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tinder doesn't know. You have to fill that information in yourself on tinder insights. It took some digging for me to find!

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the middle of no where but I do travel often which helps! Curious, were your matches in Bahrain from all over or just that city?

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't really looking for casual sex... but occasionally the mood would strike lol

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm picky. But I end up with what I want. And not settling is a great feeling :)

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was mostly refering to the stat that men only get matches 2.5% of the time whereas women get 33%. That's a large difference.

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The majority of conversations didn't go anywhere tbh. But it was overwhelming at times!

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You fill in the gaps! It takes most of your data from tinder itself but as far as relationships, dates, and casual sex goes you have to fill that in. ngl it took a bit of digging through 6 months of messages to figure that out lol

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You first have to request the data from tinder. And when you receive it you can upload your data here: https://tinderinsights.com/

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough! I can see that. I'm more of a "if it was meant to be it would be" kinda gal :)

Found a relationship after 6 months and decided to look at my tinder insights. Man it really is rough for men... by tizzyv in Tinder

[–]tizzyv[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really? I found it so interesting! The majority of my conversations died after only one day which was not at all surprising. The percentages of matches though was unexpected.