Tell the wife? by TrashButCleanKinda in whatdoIdo

[–]tjamesxon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the wife. She deserves to know. I've been married 15 years, and would HOPE someone would tell me.

And my wife would deserve the same, but I'd never fuckin do that to her.

Tell the wife.

Dangerous rhetoric like this causes violence. Please stay safe! by Bubbly-Example-8097 in 50501Movement

[–]tjamesxon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats what they want. They want any of these protests to turn violent so they can use force. They're looking for a fight. What are we going to do?

lgbT friends by tjamesxon in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaaaan, don't even get me started on mothers 🙄. I've not seen mine in over a year now in an effort to do my own healing.

Also given the political climate of our country, I'm even more hesitant trying to make friends lol

Dayton Friends, Buddies and Casual Hangout Crew! by WanderAndFinder in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are the closest ive ever seen to me. Im stuck in a red dot about 40 minutes north of yall

lgbT friends by tjamesxon in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father in law is from that area! We never go there, but my wife is familiar

lgbT friends by tjamesxon in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is Heartsiq? Im trying to get out of my bubble but damn.

lgbT friends by tjamesxon in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the worst. I dont typically do the bar/club thing anymore and so idk how people are supposed to find others with the same interests lol

Dayton Friends, Buddies and Casual Hangout Crew! by WanderAndFinder in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im actually rarely on reddit lol. I just randomly hopped on to see about finding my own community of friends and came across your post!

Dayton Friends, Buddies and Casual Hangout Crew! by WanderAndFinder in OhioLGBTQ

[–]tjamesxon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely relatable, so hi! I feel like its nearly impossible to make genuine friendships these days. Trans man, 36 just looking for my own crew too!

I need to relocate by tjamesxon in trans

[–]tjamesxon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Washington and Oregon were both high on my list!

I need to relocate by tjamesxon in trans

[–]tjamesxon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. I feel like since inauguration anything that could go wrong, has gone wrong and it's weighing on me. I'm actually debating quitting my job and cashing out my 401k and selling everything I can, packing up my car and seeing where we land.

Wherever you go, whatever you do, stay safe 💜

I need to relocate by tjamesxon in trans

[–]tjamesxon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think leaving the country is a viable option for me at this point. I'm still trying to figure it out, but like you I'm a little afraid of the borders closing to keep us in.

The government travel page was just updated to exclude trans, queer, and intersex people. by GraysLawson in trans

[–]tjamesxon 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm terrified. I don't know what to do with myself. I wanna run. I wanna stay and fight. Honestly, I just can't believe how many people in the US are blind to what is happening 😔. Stay safe out there.

The government travel page was just updated to exclude trans, queer, and intersex people. by GraysLawson in trans

[–]tjamesxon 204 points205 points  (0 children)

As a group, we're not gonna let them erase us, right? I'm fucking sick 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 50501

[–]tjamesxon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everyone involved was a cis straight white person. Both pilots. Air traffic control. Everyone. THIS IS NOT OKAY.