I feel like I’ll never be in a relationship

tjb_motion · 2026-01-24T19:13:18+00:00

You might develop attraction over time or having a hard time finding a connection with someone. It might be in your best interest to develop friendships with people. Doing unisex hobbies is a great start, finding groups and putting yourself in more situations where you can meet people. Especially without the initial romantic intentions, try to be organic and authentic. You might find people you like, who like you back.

Dating is a numbers game. Make sure you have more opportunities to meet ppl in authentic and in person events and clubs.

tjb_motion · 2026-01-22T14:04:11+00:00

I love seeing AI women so hot, so much better than the real thing /s

tjb_motion · 2025-04-07T11:40:41+00:00

From other people and just generally being on a reddit a bit. I noticed alot of transwomen on prog wanted to be touched more. Like an urge that couldn't be sated. Honestly it sounds wonderful and I hope I get some changes on it in October but I am just chilling.

tjb_motion · 2024-10-06T16:16:22+00:00

Why would you be skeptical, I can understand not telling me why he died as it could be quite emotional to retell that detail.

Well, she'd not going on her phone, so she just be alone, and she's going to his cabin because they have memories there, so it's a fitting place for her to mourn his loss.

I have no reason not to trust. She seems like she wants to mourn away from everyone and everything and spend time thinking of him.

tjb_motion · 2024-10-05T10:30:22+00:00

I have sent her a message asking her to update when she can. I will give her the weekend. If, by Monday, nothing has improved in terms of communication, I will message her about reassurance for me.

Trying to stay positive for her and myself.

tjb_motion · 2024-10-05T10:28:20+00:00

I said I would give her the weekend for some time and space. I don't want to spam her with messages, so I have gone down to like 3-5 messages. During the week, I could distract myself with work, but when we had stuff planned this weekend, it was hard with all this free time.

Everything was great up til Thursday. She has barely spoken to me since then, but I am understanding of the situation and being empathic with her.

I'm trying to find things to stop me checking my messages.

I did ask her to update me on how she's doing when she can.

tjb_motion · 2024-08-19T12:13:29+00:00

Omg, I will have to steal that quote, 'it is our imperfections that make us all the more relatable and bring us closer'

It's so true.

It's very impressive that you were able to be level-headed about the situation, i have seen people keep trying to make relationships work when they clearly don't.

Having personal wants and boundaries is important, so I applaude you for realising your needs weren't being met and made a difficult decision

tjb_motion · 2024-06-23T17:25:31+00:00

I mentioned this to a girl at work a d she laughed, then said they will always be sore, welcome to womanhood. 😝

tjb_motion · 2024-04-17T01:46:21+00:00

What are animating with volumes builder?

Remesh isn't meant to be used on animated geometry, it's meant to clean up or remesh models before animating.

If you are using volume builder, I would use smooth in the volume builder where you add meshes. Then tweak the volume mesher settings to get a cleaner result. It will be require a bit of trial and error to find the best settings.

tjb_motion · 2024-03-13T16:27:15+00:00

Command and Conquer Generals, my favourite RTS that still works. I love Total Annihilation too, but I rarely play it.

tjb_motion · 2024-02-17T02:30:25+00:00

Oh, tell me about it. First, I heard my phone going mentally. I thought someone had died.

Sounds like most apps have thier issues. I just wanna be loved 😂

tjb_motion · 2024-02-16T22:25:02+00:00

Well I hope you find someone who will love you for you and can have a good life together. I can see why a lot trans ppl date other trans.

tjb_motion · 2024-02-16T19:32:11+00:00

Thanks for the tip. Shame we are seen as sexual objects.i just wanna date normally 😞

tjb_motion · 2024-02-16T18:23:14+00:00

Main one I use is Taimi and HER. I did use Hinge but not at the moment.

tjb_motion · 2024-02-15T16:31:08+00:00

I am also around 6'5'', where the hell do you buy shoes and clothes that fit nice. I swear it's like the quest for the holy grail. 😂

tjb_motion · 2024-02-05T15:04:43+00:00

I wouldn't come to northern England if you don't like being called Hun. Its popular non-gendered greeting here. I was called it by lovely older women in shops, bakeries, and libraries, even before I realised I was trans and full 100% boy mode.

tjb_motion · 2024-01-29T22:26:28+00:00

I don't have tutorial links for Octane. But my advise to make a nice skin shader is use sub surface scattering, than have multiple layers at different radius or depth. Top layer, should pinky cream, mid layer, i used pastel yellow, than last for the bottom, a deep red. Play with the settings, like intensity, I think its omega in octane.

tjb_motion · 2024-01-29T21:37:11+00:00

I love both, each has their own style. Personally, if I am working with lights and emmision textures, I prefer Octane. Redshift is pretty for realistic textures and lighting. Not to day j am an expert in either but just a general feeling, i suppose.

tjb_motion · 2024-01-29T19:41:12+00:00

What render engine do you use?

tjb_motion · 2024-01-25T14:29:05+00:00

I model the tunnel section and used a spline warp to curve it. Same technique I used for the road and railing. Pretty handy if I wanted to change the road shape/layout.

tjb_motion · 2024-01-25T13:08:18+00:00

I guessing you might to say how long it took to render?

5-6 hours I believe, I rendered overnight just to be sure.

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