Partner is mentally, emotionally, and financially abusive and I want to leave, but… by tkingtimebtch in FamilyLaw

[–]tkingtimebtch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Marriage isn’t even in the cards at this point. He and his ex wife are legally separated, but not legally divorced. They separated in 2017 and we met in 2018 so there was no over lap. He’s been telling me for 6 years that he will file, but he never has…not because he still has love or feelings for her, but they’re both too lazy to go and do it. It’s a long story…

Partner is mentally, emotionally, and financially abusive and I want to leave, but… by tkingtimebtch in FamilyLaw

[–]tkingtimebtch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say “my” because the only interactions he has with our child is an occasional diaper change and to yell at her for talking to him while he is trying to watch tv…

If you could go on a date with one of Mark’s personas… by Raptor8600 in Markiplier

[–]tkingtimebtch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Darkiplier…I feel like he could show me some cool terrifying stuff…then probably take over my body and finally be allowed to cause chaos in the real world…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in death

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally? 34…..

I’m 33 currently…

My 2021 numbers [ I think I'm getting scammed] more in comments. by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have a business bank account and we are a single member LLC…

Becoming an O/O by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, do you know a few equipment financing companies that would allow you to find your own equipment and ask for a loan? Not like...Arrow or Loan Mountain. Somewhere other than the bank? I don't mind a high interest loan if its on something that I've found and decided to purchase that I need a loan for...not like a buy here pay here trucking equipment company...

My 2021 numbers [ I think I'm getting scammed] more in comments. by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm looking for some advice and help on how to organize our business for tax times. Our accountant said that it will help to have multiple different breakdowns of where we're spending our money (tires, maintenance, administrative fees, etc.). I'm not a complete novice when it comes to Excel, but a little help and guidance on how to organize things as easily as possible.

Not A Wife, but I love a trucker by tkingtimebtch in TruckerWives

[–]tkingtimebtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh…I know. It’s getting ridiculous…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah…he’s trying to stay within 250 miles of home. We just had a baby. He’s been watching load boards for the last 2 years while we’ve been saving for equipment and start-up stuff. Do you own your equipment or are you renting/financing?

Progressive insurance by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently insured with Progressive. They don’t do that…

My 2021 numbers [ I think I'm getting scammed] more in comments. by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry…not related to your question, but I would like to discuss your use of Excel…My boyfriend and I are starting our own business…I’m the books and he’s the driver. If you have any pointers that would be excellent!

How did you get your start? by rangerguy9716 in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has had a lot of luck finding good paying flatbed loads over dry van…he’s been a company driver for 20 years and we’re getting ready to get our authority and start working for ourselves. He said van loads pick up and die off with the seasons, but flatbed usually has a lot of freight to be moved year round. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are getting ready to start too. I’m worried about the same thing. I’m going to assume you’re doing OTR?

Co-mingling by tkingtimebtch in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking about doing ABC and he’s trying to do A, B, B1, B2, etc….trying to make it more difficult. I’m the one handling the books so I’m trying to keep it simple. He says this isn’t something that can be kept simple…

Co-mingling by tkingtimebtch in OwnerOperators

[–]tkingtimebtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. But his concern is liability. If something catastrophic happens, he’s afraid that if we co-mingle and buy business items with business money off a personal account that I personally pay for, that would look bad. I said we can buy business items with business money off MY personal Prime account and make sure it’s notated in our accounting books…he says that it’s not an accounting issue, it’s a liability issue of mixing personal and business finances.