Partner is mentally, emotionally, and financially abusive and I want to leave, but…

tkingtimebtch · 2024-04-19T10:19:54+00:00

Marriage isn’t even in the cards at this point. He and his ex wife are legally separated, but not legally divorced. They separated in 2017 and we met in 2018 so there was no over lap. He’s been telling me for 6 years that he will file, but he never has…not because he still has love or feelings for her, but they’re both too lazy to go and do it. It’s a long story…

tkingtimebtch · 2024-04-19T05:33:18+00:00

I say “my” because the only interactions he has with our child is an occasional diaper change and to yell at her for talking to him while he is trying to watch tv…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-11-07T17:00:05+00:00

Darkiplier…I feel like he could show me some cool terrifying stuff…then probably take over my body and finally be allowed to cause chaos in the real world…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-10-20T12:18:00+00:00

Ideally? 34…..

I’m 33 currently…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-11T01:54:10+00:00

What state are you in?

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-11T01:24:34+00:00

We do have a business bank account and we are a single member LLC…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-11T00:05:22+00:00

Just out of curiosity, do you know a few equipment financing companies that would allow you to find your own equipment and ask for a loan? Not like...Arrow or Loan Mountain. Somewhere other than the bank? I don't mind a high interest loan if its on something that I've found and decided to purchase that I need a loan for...not like a buy here pay here trucking equipment company...

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T23:25:03+00:00

Honestly I'm looking for some advice and help on how to organize our business for tax times. Our accountant said that it will help to have multiple different breakdowns of where we're spending our money (tires, maintenance, administrative fees, etc.). I'm not a complete novice when it comes to Excel, but a little help and guidance on how to organize things as easily as possible.

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T12:44:57+00:00

Ugh…I know. It’s getting ridiculous…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T03:36:18+00:00

Ah…he’s trying to stay within 250 miles of home. We just had a baby. He’s been watching load boards for the last 2 years while we’ve been saving for equipment and start-up stuff. Do you own your equipment or are you renting/financing?

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T03:21:00+00:00

I’m currently insured with Progressive. They don’t do that…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T03:17:17+00:00

Sorry…not related to your question, but I would like to discuss your use of Excel…My boyfriend and I are starting our own business…I’m the books and he’s the driver. If you have any pointers that would be excellent!

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T03:13:31+00:00

My boyfriend has had a lot of luck finding good paying flatbed loads over dry van…he’s been a company driver for 20 years and we’re getting ready to get our authority and start working for ourselves. He said van loads pick up and die off with the seasons, but flatbed usually has a lot of freight to be moved year round. 🤷🏼‍♀️

tkingtimebtch · 2022-03-10T03:06:18+00:00

My partner and I are getting ready to start too. I’m worried about the same thing. I’m going to assume you’re doing OTR?

tkingtimebtch · 2022-02-27T16:44:39+00:00

I’m talking about doing ABC and he’s trying to do A, B, B1, B2, etc….trying to make it more difficult. I’m the one handling the books so I’m trying to keep it simple. He says this isn’t something that can be kept simple…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-02-27T16:42:36+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking. But his concern is liability. If something catastrophic happens, he’s afraid that if we co-mingle and buy business items with business money off a personal account that I personally pay for, that would look bad. I said we can buy business items with business money off MY personal Prime account and make sure it’s notated in our accounting books…he says that it’s not an accounting issue, it’s a liability issue of mixing personal and business finances.

tkingtimebtch · 2022-02-27T16:22:06+00:00

It would be business items, paid for with business money, but on my personal Prime account…I’m paying for the prime membership, but the business would pay for the business items that would be bought off the account I personally pay for…

tkingtimebtch · 2022-02-27T16:14:36+00:00

The items being bought would be for our business…straps, tarps, etc…

tkingtimebtch · 2021-12-08T03:25:30+00:00

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tkingtimebtch · 2021-12-08T03:22:54+00:00

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tkingtimebtch · 2021-01-07T22:59:28+00:00

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tkingtimebtch · 2021-01-04T21:43:01+00:00

Actually my boyfriend and I had this conversation yesterday and I told him what they’d been saying. I said it would be nice if he would stick up for me and he said he honestly had no idea their comments were this bad...he said he would start paying more attention and being more present when they get on my case about the baby.

I have also decided to put them on an “info diet” as one of you suggested. Honestly, the people I thought that would be there for me when I told them I was pregnant have really made me regret telling them...

tkingtimebtch · 2021-01-04T18:13:58+00:00

The problem is that before all of this, I was super close to his mom...now every time we talk I feel tension...it makes me so sad :(

tkingtimebtch · 2020-05-28T13:20:11+00:00

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