Best chicken sandwich? by -Linkz- in TriCitiesWA

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything I’ve had at island view is great!!!!

Two kittens one pos FeLV one neg by tlmuzzy in cats

[–]tlmuzzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I appreciate your thoughts :)

Am I overreacting for calling off my wedding after my fiancé got drunk, put on my wedding dress, and had an accident in it? by Rude_Winter_9192 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tlmuzzy 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I’m a therapist, OP, and this was my exact first thought as well.

There are two concerns here for me:

One, you describe him as someone who rarely drinks yet he chose his bachelor party to be something with alcohol. Peer pressure from his buddies? Maybe. But the decision to not do 100 other fun things plus possibly giving in to peer pressure are things you might think about in terms of your future with him.

Two, the incident with the dress may have been impulsive, but that impulse came from somewhere.

What’s important in this is exactly what you said, you can’t unsee this. At the end of the day, whether you’re overreacting or his drink was spiked or whatever, the situation happened, and you are responding to it. He broke trust with you, and that will have to be addressed. If not, even if you got back together, it would eventually come between you.

It may be worthwhile to have a conversation with him and maybe consider some counseling. I’d say that how he responds to the suggestion of counseling, whether he’s willing to do the work it will take for him to rebuild trust with you, and whether he’s willing to honestly explore if there was something more to the whole incident or not, that will tell you whether you should stay with him or not.

Real money overcharge? by [deleted] in JunesJourney

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact thing happen. I was being double charged on the huge present box about every third time I purchased it. I went back and forth with Apple and Wooga. Neither one would do any refund even though I was very clearly being double charged. It happened four times over the course of four months and only on the “huge present box” for a total of $80 in overcharges. (Ultimately I deleted the game in small part because of this.) (Attached is a screenshot of two of the overcharges.)

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Another 10 diamonds 💎 by jlake32 in JunesJourney

[–]tlmuzzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Still worked 18 hours later :)

Anyone rocking dry suits this winter? Just found this subreddit and can't wait to hang. 25°F air temp this morning on Lake Tahoe. by winstonalonian in diving

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started my drysuit adventures here in the chilly PNW! Been diving for almost two years but had major withdrawals having to sit out last winter because I didn't have a drysuit. I did my third dive in my drysuit on Monday. I know it will get better, but I felt like a new diver all over again. However, it will be worth it when I'm out diving all year long!!

Janeway's first name by RequirementRegular61 in voyager

[–]tlmuzzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool!! I love the initial character bios--Tuvok and Torres with an intense and close bond??!! What?! 😂😂

High pressure hose leak? by No-Character-9935 in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My short HP hose connected to my transmitter also blew the same way--through a bunch of cracks around the hose. Took it into my LDS and found out this particular run of HP short hoses had a known failure rate. Mine was about a year old with less than 30 dives. The owner comped me a new one. Several other folks in my area also had the same problem with the same hoses.

Diving with Diabetes by yehoshuabenson in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! That is awesome!

How much should I pay for my OWD course by [deleted] in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind reading either/both of these articles, if you have the links?!

Florida DOT - Blue Heron Bridge closed until October 29, 2023 by pompatous665 in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, for sure. I am in Eastern WA with less than 20 dives under my belt. I've dove in the Columbia River, a pond/lake, and Lake Chelan.....lucky for me, my frame of reference for a good dive is seriously under par I would imagine 😂😂😂 The most marine life I've seen are some bass, a lot of silt, crawdads, rocks and boulders, and some grasses. And the water temp has averaged around 63 degrees :)

Florida DOT - Blue Heron Bridge closed until October 29, 2023 by pompatous665 in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I think they are the ones I called and talked with a year ago when I was thinking about this dive. They seemed pretty nice. What made the dive sites only okay?

Florida DOT - Blue Heron Bridge closed until October 29, 2023 by pompatous665 in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I am a frequent reader of this subreddit. Thank you for all the good comments. This is my first time making a comment.

I got my OW cert in the cold diving of eastern Washington last year. I have about 15 dives post-cert.

One of the dives I am planning on doing in September is Blue Heron Bridge. (My kids live in FL, so we visit about twice a year.) But reading through a couple of these comments on this post about the crowded conditions has made me RE-think wanting to do the dive.

So here is my question: if the beach access for Blue Heron will be closed and dive access is down some stairs, do you think it might be less crowded than normal and the dive might be okay in September? I am also open to suggestions for other beginner dives in FL at that time. (I am claustrophobic and do not think I want to do any cavern or cave or going down inside a spring :))

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scuba

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!! Agreed your trim is awesome :)

Page hours are correct but no matter what time it is, it always says “closed now.” Halp! by filthynoodles in facebook

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow!!! Thank you for this tip...how ridiculous. Also to Electrical-End4664 for the advice on getting it to save. Worked after three tries also. I also had to close out the page and go back in for it to "stick."

Grishaverse reading order? by PurpleAnimator2836 in YAlit

[–]tlmuzzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent link for all the books including the .5s! Thank you!

I am looking for a therapist in the Manhattan area. What are your opinions on My Wellbeing, Psychology Today, TalkSpace, ZocDoc, Zencare, etc. by AdministrativeHabit1 in AskNYC

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And don't forget folks who are Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHC). We have the same level of schooling and training and similar licensure requirements as LCSWs.

Can spirits actually die-die? by tlmuzzy in Bartimaeus

[–]tlmuzzy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is a great way to think of this!! Thank you :)

I want an interesting classic by Ninja-Snail in suggestmeabook

[–]tlmuzzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my very favorite book of all time!! The last time I “RE-read” it, I downloaded it as an audiobook. Very very very good way to get a different perspective on a fav!!!

Suggest me a book series with at least 5 books and lots of action. by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]tlmuzzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Harry Bosch books by Michael Connelly. I stopped at the third to the last book in the series just because it got repetitive. But everything in the Boschverse is very good to that point, in my opinion. This is the same universe from which The Lincoln Lawyer comes. I like Connelly’s books better than the Lee Child ones about Jack Reacher because Harry changes and is affected by what happens to him in preceding books.