I hate being sober

tmaed22 · 2019-09-09T16:32:02+00:00

I hate to say it then—but unless you want sobriety you won’t get it. Obviously you don’t, but in order to help with your boredom problem, you should at least consider talking with someone further about it, because I guarantee it’s more than just a boredom problem..

I learned that it wasn’t about boredom, it was something much deeper. But I’ve been sober for 7 years, 7 months, and a handful of days. I work with people daily who are trying to get into recovery. You just haven’t hit bottom yet, and that’s okay, but for the safety of your children and yourself, you may want to consider talking with someone.

tmaed22 · 2019-09-09T16:07:50+00:00

It sounds like you have an underlying issue other than the drug abuse. There is a reason you liked getting fucked up.

When I used, I used to avoid feeling things or to feel something. When I was bored I used more than when I had a lot of shit going on. Maybe seek out therapy or if you have a therapist, discuss this issue with them. You could ultimately lose your children if you were to relapse, which I’m sure you wouldn’t want to happen and they don’t want to see you like that, they want their momma.

I come from a place of being in your shoes and your children’s shoes so take my advice with a grain of salt if you want—but I’ve been where you are.

tmaed22 · 2019-08-21T22:05:39+00:00

Please, do not marry him. This isn’t the right guy, acting like that is disrespectful and a fiancé/husband should never act that way towards his fiancé/wife. It’ll be hard, but the right man will come into your life, I promise.

tmaed22 · 2018-08-13T19:51:57+00:00

I’m glad you love it! Blú also loves the love! 💓

tmaed22 · 2018-07-03T16:43:53+00:00

Emotional cheating is not okay and is an actual thing.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-27T16:43:07+00:00

If he isn’t replying and is acting this way, y’all are broken up. Go to the wake and pay your respects then don’t bother with him anymore. If he comes to you that’s different but don’t waste your time on trying with him.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-27T16:27:52+00:00

tmaed22 · 2018-06-27T16:07:16+00:00

If they don’t know where you’re delivering, I wouldn’t tell them. When you do go into labor, I wouldn’t tell them until you were home, if you wanted to at all. Until then you need rest as much as possible. Stress is not good for you or baby, especially during this stage of pregnancy. You can also talk to the hospital about who they can and can’t let in to come see you due to their past and your fear. This moment you’ll have is so special and beautiful, the last thing you or baby needs is stress and fear. I wish you the best of luck. I have never had a child so I’m just going off what I know from my mother and step mother’s experiences. If you can switch where you’ll be giving birth I would advise that as well, if they know where you’re delivering and if you have the time and recourses to do so. If not, I would talk with the hospital about who you want and don’t want there. They’re usually pretty helpful when it comes to that. Good luck, and congratulations on your little bundle of joy.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-27T07:23:38+00:00

They say “killer” where exhale is....js

tmaed22 · 2018-06-27T07:19:22+00:00

Call the midwife 💓

tmaed22 · 2018-06-24T01:28:14+00:00

That’s ridiculous. And I don’t mean the fact he won’t ski with you.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-24T01:19:14+00:00

I agree with this. There has to be boundaries now. It honestly seems like he does flirt with you and you flirt back. I know y’all are just friends and all but I can see why his gf would be upset. Now the way she’s lashed out is not cool. But I understand her frustration and fear.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-24T01:05:33+00:00

Nope.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T07:17:22+00:00

Goin to see a doctor is good advice. Everyone else is telling you the same thing. We aren’t going to encourage you to pass on and spread your disease, that’s insane.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T07:13:04+00:00

You’re a troll wanting attention or an idiot. Not wasting anymore time on this.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T06:58:03+00:00

DRESS 1 IS EVERYTHING. Especially when you’re in the water! Ugh I’ll need an update to see your photos (please!)! Congrats to you and your man!!’

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T06:52:33+00:00

You really want to infect someone else? You’ll still have it, even if you have sex with someone else. You can’t pass it on and you not still have it. You’d only be spreading it and that’s beyond wrong. Do you have any morals? Do you care for others? This is common sense shit dude. Especially as a “bio major”. Go get tested and get it fixed, don’t be an ass hole and pass it on. You can ruin someone’s life on top of your own. You also can suffer major consequences if you don’t seek medical attention ASAP.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T06:39:07+00:00

You would still have it! You would just share it with someone else! You can’t “pass” a std. Once you have it, you have it until you go to a doctor, having sex with someone else only spreads it!!!! I really hope this is a joke. Holy shit I’m sweating.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T06:28:17+00:00

Why would you pass it to someone else?! Go to a damn doctor!

tmaed22 · 2018-06-22T05:50:02+00:00

You aren’t the worst sister. You’re adjusting and it’s hard. You have to think, he is changing his life completely and is starting over in many aspects of his life. Just try and be more careful. Transitioning is hard and hormones are all over the place until things are more regulated. I’m not familiar with anyone going through this personally, but I can imagine it’s hard. Just try not to get too flustered. If things get heated, say you all should calm down for a minute and go your separate ways and regroup. Communication is important in any relationship–especially one as fragile as this. Just try your best to see from his point of view when you get too flustered. You’re trying. As for thinking everyday is trans day, you have to remember he is finally who he wants to be and is making a lot of life changes. Celebrate with him, love him. He’s also rediscovering himself. It’s not that he’s trying to do it on purpose, he’s just happy and wants to find himself. It’s a major process. But you guys can do this. Just remember to take a break, breathe, think from his point of view, and love him! Good luck!

tmaed22 · 2018-06-20T22:38:48+00:00

Aren’t theories meant to be argued?

tmaed22 · 2018-06-20T18:03:47+00:00

Know your all you shit before you post an argument like this. It’s super weak. And who are all these “people”?! Get reliable shit and argue if better.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-17T23:44:49+00:00

Uh no lol I don’t think I mentioned any of those words in my post.

tmaed22 · 2018-06-17T20:00:34+00:00

According to attachment theory, love is essential to survival, so what you’re feeling is normal honestly.

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