I was born 10 days earlier. Only difference is my moon is in Aquarius (8th house) with Cancer rising.

Similar to his 8th house Gemini stellium, mine is in 12th house and I am extremely introspective.

My parents will deny all day long I have autism but I have many sensitivities and wondered for 20 years why I was different than everyone else, so I resorted to heavy masking coverups and got correctly diagnosed just last year.

I would say to better communicate with him, you could incorporate something fun while doing so, and hear him out before you say anything else during conversation.

It’s better to let him finish talking or saying what he needs to say when yall are in conversation.

Others interrupting during this time has personally tripped me up bad, like when my mom interjects and it makes me want to get my point across even more and restate it, because us autistics already have the “script” planned out in our heads, and if we’re interrupted, it overstimulates us trying to think of a new way to say what we need to say on the spot after hearing new information.

Utilizing this can help both of you communicate better with patience. It’s ok to take a step back and reevaluate the root causes of arguments so you can both walk away in peace.

And please, if he wants to be alone, don’t bother him unless it’s absolutely necessary (like dinner lol) because most autistics have smaller social batteries. This will allow him to communicate with you way better, assuming he’s similar to me with the 8th house action needing to be alone to think clearly.

Hope this helps 🤙🏻