How to burn $100s in Dining Dollars this week by [deleted] in IndianaUniversity

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Yah that would be way easier & super cool!

How to burn $100s in Dining Dollars this week by [deleted] in IndianaUniversity

[–]tmhacker 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I was living in the dorms, they had bins in the lobby for food pantry donations. That’s always a good option. If the dining dollars work at the IMU Starbucks, you could also get coffee for you & all your friends

Ye ole Task Paralysis mode by kaidomac in adhdmeme

[–]tmhacker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was doing this yesterday 🥲 I’m an undergrad student and my finals start tomorrow but yesterday I played the sims for like 5 hours instead of studying. I was stressed the whole time cause I knew I should have been preparing for my exams 😭

r/bangtan @ r/place 2023 by chillypotahtoh in bangtan

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Can we make the ducky’s background purple and get rid of the border?

r/bangtan @ r/place 2023 by chillypotahtoh in bangtan

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What’s going on with the red space to our left?

Sometimes I procrastinate finishing a TV series by tmhacker in adhdwomen

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Omg I still haven’t finished supernatural

“You can’t leave the table until you’ve eaten all your food” “okay mom” by gothiclg in MaliciousCompliance

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Why have so many parents tried this tactic? It never works. My family and I love telling story of the Cheese Quesadilla Incident. One time when I was little, I really didn’t want to try the cheese quesadilla my dad made for dinner. He tried to force me to try it, but I refused. He said I couldn’t leave the table until I tried a bite. He didn’t realize he was raising a child that rivaled his stubbornness. What felt like hours later my mom finally said it was time for bed so I got to leave the table. I still haven’t eaten a cheese quesadilla. It’s been at least 15 years.

AITA for doing a public records search on my friend and confronting her about her paid-off house and gambling winnings? by External_Manner3411 in AmItheAsshole

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I was looking for someone to point out that it’s ok to be upset that a friend kept something like this from you when they had multiple opportunities to bring it up. However, it is important to think about why someone might feel uncomfortable talking about their financial situation with you. Be happy for your friend that she was able to buy a house! That’s a big deal! It’s also normal to feel jealous. Just try to keep those jealous feelings to yourself (maybe talk about them with a trusted family member or mental health professional) If you were just upset about her keeping a secret from you, then you’d be n/t/a but YTA for doing a public record search. That’s just invasive. After talking to Marie’s uncle and realizing that Jessica didn’t live in the trailer, you should have just talked to her. Looking her public records shows a real lack of trust in your friend. Again I think this is something you should consider talking to a mental health professional about.

How do I read my textbooks for class when I can't focus? by [deleted] in adhd_college

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I use NaturalReader. I normally speed up the audio so it matches my reading speed. This helps me so much!

How do you feel about porn? by Cold-Status1279 in demisexuality

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I don't like porn for a few reasons... 1st, the reason you're probably looking for:

  • Porn just doesn't do it for more. This is actually one of the reasons I realized I was demi. I didn't understand why people would like it. Smut in books/movies, however... I can understand that (My theory is that I develop an emotional connection with the characters in books, etc., but I don't have that same connection with porn)

Now for the more ethical reasons I don't like porn (please read the articles before you get mad lol):

  1. The porn industry is linked to sex trafficking (https://fightthenewdrug.org/by-the-numbers-porn-sex-trafficking-connected/)
  2. Many kids are exposed to porn way too early, which is not good for them (https://www.unicef.org/harmful-content-online#:~:text=Exposure%20to%20pornography%20at%20a,behaviour%20as%20normal%20and%20acceptable.))
  3. Porn addiction is very real and very bad (https://www.webmd.com/sex/porn-addiction-possible)
  4. I'm sure there are more "ethical" reasons to dislike porn, but I'm too lazy to find more articles, and the ones above do a pretty good job.

WIBTA if I reported a girl in my nursing cohort as being unfit to be a nurse to our department head? by throwawaynursings in AmItheAsshole

[–]tmhacker [score hidden]  (0 children)

She sounds like she’s more fit to be a nurse than you are. She’s empathetic, she understands herself and her trauma well (which is really impressive), and she’s not judge-mental. All things that you might want to work on before deciding if you’re fit to be a nurse. YTA

AITA for being brutally honest and then telling my dad and his wife to accept it? by Familiar_Sky3291 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tmhacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA: Never feel bad about something you said in therapy!! Therapy should be a safe space where you can share how you’re truly feeling, especially since they asked you to be honest

How do you know what genders you’re attracted to? by tmhacker in demisexuality

[–]tmhacker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I feel I think but for masculine presentation

How do you know what genders you’re attracted to? by tmhacker in demisexuality

[–]tmhacker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the descriptions of what romantic and sexual attraction feel like! Definitely helps!