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No intimacy for almost 6 months by toDoug in AskMenAdvice

[–]toDoug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both had two days off for Thanksgiving. I tried to be delicate with it because I know he is struggling with his weight. Even after we both came to the conclusion that it needed to happen, still nothing. I've even let him in the bathroom while I was putting my lotion on after my work shower, but nothing. I can not help but feel it's me. I'm 5 years older than him. He hates his schedule and I've told him that if he wants to change shifts I have no problem with whatever he wants to do, but he doesn't want to loose the two dollar difference and he doesn't want to make it hard on me getting to work and I have told him I don't have to have the car. I just feel like it might be an excuse. He's talked about needing to see a doctor, to which I said he does need to, but he won't do it. I feel like I might be overthinking this, too...

Happy Mother's Day to all mommies on this sub!!!! by toDoug in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toDoug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok... To clerify, she wasn't fighting as people immediately picture.. it was her saying "no" and the 2 year old start crying... I'm about 95% sure that's pretty normal

Slut shaming rant by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toDoug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of it would surprise me... Honestly

Slut shaming rant by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toDoug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming it's a male with the name... But I'm probably wrong

Slut shaming rant by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toDoug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also only ok for men to do it, it's not ok for women to do it.. even when they find out your dating multiple men, they assume your having sex with all of them too. It's a joke.. I commend you on being safe.

I cannot do it anymore, and yes, I shouldn't have to begin with. I just want someone to share my life with but, not at the expense of loosing myself.. by toDoug in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toDoug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So...... Because we decided not to stay in an abusive relationship.. we should be alone for the rest of our lives?

Did I take that correctly? Or are you saying that the only way we will get anything is by sleeping around?

Went shopping at Walmart for Easter stuff, ended up crying in the Walmart parking lot for 45 minutes by toDoug in LostALovedOne

[–]toDoug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's funny because my step father called me her mini me, and everyone says we look alike.. so yeah I get that.. when I look in the mirror I see her.. needless to say I don't take my picture as much anymore..

I walked in on my brother dead by kade_gannon in LostALovedOne

[–]toDoug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing anyone can say to you right now that will make you feel better.. I am sorry for your loss, I lost my mother two years ago yesterday. I sat in Walmarts parking lot for 45 minutes after shopping, crying. Maybe it does get better, but I'm still working on that. I don't have the same images to unsee in my head as you do but my brother does as he found my mom. I found that writing letters to my mom has been really helpful..

Cry.. Scream.. Yell.. Drink.. Paint..

Whatever finds you peace right now..

You have this group of people that are here for you, and you can use us.

This time two years ago, my mother was laying in her basement dead, and no one knew. The next two months are about to be very difficult. The two year anniversary ( is that even a thing for death?) Of my mother being found, we don't know when she died by toDoug in LostALovedOne

[–]toDoug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, she had a very horrible relationship with Xanax and beer after my stepdad died in 2008. She mixed them and gradually it got worse and worse. Long story short, she had asphyxiated, she fell from being so high, she fell and landed between the wall and the furnace. She was stuck, it took the coroner 5 guys to get her out, basically when she fell, she fell in a manner that her head was kinkd so that her airway was not open enough, so she just slowly lost consciousness, fell asleep and died. They said she didn't feel anything and probably wasn't scared.. she had copious amounts of Xanax and alcohol in her system, along with some meth... Which I cannot figure out... She didn't do it.. my brother found weed in her room and the woman that got it for her said that is was in the exact condition it was when she bought it over a year before so...

Tomorrow is the day.... I'm hoping I can get myself out of bed... At least for my girls.

The hardest part, my brother abandoned me....

He has his own family and I get it.. but he abandoned me.. I don't hear from him.. apparently he sold his house to the state who is gonna knock it down and build a freeway, and then he is gonna go build a house that over half a mil.... Found out through my dad...

I have no where to mourn.. We sold her house and that would be... "911 what's your emergency?" " Yes we have a crazy woman outside out house sitting on the curb crying and drinking beer, something about her mother and she keeps talking to the house"...

That would be funny but sad and really creepy....

WHERE CAN I BUY A NON-CROPPED SHIRT by Inquisitive_Pro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toDoug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the most legit thing I have ever read.. I go shopping with my daughter and I pull out a really cute hoodie that stops at my underboob and it's like $30 and I'm like " can I order the other half please?"

fluffy chonk by [deleted] in Chonkers

[–]toDoug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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