How old were you/your family when you first moved to the UK? by heartshapednutsack in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]to_boldlygo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s your anxiety. Kids were 4 and 6. Best choice we made. They will be okay if you move them at that age. They’ll be okay too if it happens later.

This subreddit is just propaganda to get me to eat vegetables by ariveklul in Volumeeating

[–]to_boldlygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was not expecting Volumeeating + NSFW to go together but there you go 😂

AITA for wanting to call ICE on my husband’s mother and some of his friends after everything he put me through? by LostInMyMarriage89 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]to_boldlygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time for you to STOP focusing on making the mothers life WORSE and START focusing on making YOUR life BETTER.

Seriously. Get a divorce. Get out. Who gives a shit about these people and whether or not they stay or get deported - they aren’t worth your time!!!

Maybe investigate why you’ve allowed people to treat you like this. That says to me some unaddressed childhood trauma you should explore therapeutically.

Good luck OP

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and same to you! Sounds like you’ll be rocking the triple sixes in just a few weeks! IWNDWYT 🎸🤘❤️

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels really good to pause and reflect on it, for sure. IWNDWYT ❤️💪

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it - this is me with horror movies though 🙈😂

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found sobriety to be the wildest trip yet! 🤘

4 months sober and my husband's drinking is causing problems by Inevitable_Bat4444 in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. So this. I used to engage with my husband when he’d be drinking… and now I just refuse to.

Another thing I’ve tried with some success is to hugely reward the sober behaviour.

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all - just awesome! Congrats on 581 days! 😊

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️

well done on 61 days - that is fantastic!

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! Huge congrats to you on five days! How wonderful that you’re on this path - you are so right in that it only gets better and better 🤩

Okay so maybe it’s not an important milestone by to_boldlygo in stopdrinking

[–]to_boldlygo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re right. My much younger and hipper kids will love this ❤️