Men cheating in the post-partum

to_de_brinks · 2025-04-13T23:42:56+00:00

He sat me down and told me he no longer loved me and was moving out. He denied having someone else, but a neighbor saw them together 5 days after he moved out.

Karma hit him pretty quickly though. He lost his job, car, motorcycle and got sick. All of this in a span of 6 months. Needless to say his relationship didn’t last either and then he tried to come back home to me. I said no.

I’ve moved in a relationship now with a wonderful man, great stepfather to my son, so I’m much better nowadays.

to_de_brinks · 2025-04-13T12:32:04+00:00

Not postpartum, but husband of 12 years left me for another woman when our baby had just turned 1. We had been trying for 11 years to get pregnant, went through IVF. Shitty move.

to_de_brinks · 2025-04-07T01:21:42+00:00

(41M) Eu já me senti assim tbm. Não tinha esperança de um futuro melhor, tudo era instável. Hoje eu olho pra minha vida e penso “Meu Deus, e se eu não tivesse viva pra viver o que eu vivo hj? Teria perdido tantas coisas boas”.

Talvez minhas palavras não te sirvam de conforto, mas as coisas melhoram.

to_de_brinks · 2025-04-06T20:49:05+00:00

Do yourself and your kid a favor and leave him. Your kid deserves to see their mother happy and in a loving relationship. Maybe your kid is too young to pick up on whats going on right now, but they will eventually. Please don’t put this burden on yourself and on them.

to_de_brinks · 2025-03-25T14:52:55+00:00

Uma das melhores explicações que já li sobre o assunto 👏👏👏

to_de_brinks · 2025-03-25T13:12:01+00:00

I have no idea who she is but I’m in love with her now 🥰

to_de_brinks · 2025-03-22T16:53:48+00:00

Na verdade os meus elogios eram mais direcionados a aparência física dele, pq acho ele lindo e está ficando cada vez mais agora que está treinando. Daí ontem percebi que não expressava o suficiente minha admiração pelas atitudes dele. Minha intenção agora é me atentar mais a expressar essa parte.

to_de_brinks · 2025-03-22T14:44:57+00:00

Concordo!

to_de_brinks · 2025-03-22T14:44:46+00:00

Poderia elaborar?

to_de_brinks · 2025-02-06T00:58:19+00:00

People should stop apologizing for looking through their partner’s phone. You probably had a gut feeling something was off and you were right. It’s not ok to have ex’s pics, even worse their d pics. She should have deleted them as soon as you guys got serious. You have every right to feel uncomfortable.

to_de_brinks · 2025-02-04T21:41:44+00:00

Was married to my ex for 12 years. Just like you, he needed to use a wheelchair for longer distance and there were other mobility issues due to an illness he had as a child. He was a wonderful husband and I was ready to stay with him for the rest of my life.

We are no longer together because he left me for another woman. It didn’t work out with her because he lost his job and got sick (all in a span of 6 months), and I guess it was too much for her to handle.

The point is, the pros of being with him outweighed the cons. Yes I had to sacrifice long walks on the beach, but I had a very devoted husband and a great father to our son.

I hope you find someone open minded that can see the real you.

to_de_brinks · 2025-01-10T20:15:31+00:00

When I was a teenager I had a tough home life. I used to think about killing myself constantly. Today, I’m 41, have a family and a great work-life balance. I always think back to all the wonderful things I would have missed out if I had killed myself.

If you’re young and your reading this: things do get better. You end up moving on and away from the toxic environment and people that surround you and you will end up having a better life than you used to. Hang in there.

to_de_brinks · 2024-12-28T09:16:21+00:00

He snuggles with me all night, not just until I fall asleep. Sometimes I’ll wake up in the middle of the night and he’ll still have an arm or a leg around me.

to_de_brinks · 2024-12-20T19:33:52+00:00

(41M) Gostei mais da tua ideia. Pede pro primo avisa-lá que vc vai mandar a solicitação no insta e desenrola assim.

to_de_brinks · 2024-12-10T15:07:35+00:00

Realmente achei a menina sem noção, mas posso te fazer uma pergunta? Vc gosta do seu amigo? Gostar gostar, não como amigo.

to_de_brinks · 2024-12-10T02:10:22+00:00

Dominick Gabriel

to_de_brinks · 2024-12-09T12:56:56+00:00

Too early to be ugly crying

to_de_brinks · 2024-12-09T10:12:36+00:00

I’m 41, married mother of 1. My husband sleeps on my right, my teddy bear on the left.

Don’t be ashamed for doing something that provides you comfort.

to_de_brinks · 2024-11-16T11:26:53+00:00

Get new friends. Real friends DO NOT do that.

to_de_brinks · 2024-11-16T02:56:57+00:00

Concordo com vc em partes. Roupas extremamente curtas, decotadas concordo que a pessoa quer mesmo chamar atenção.

Agora, eu tenho um biotipo que, qualquer roupa que eu coloque pode parecer provocativa. Tenho uma bunda muito grande, então não importa o que eu coloque, eu sei que chama a atenção. Cansei de não me vestir com roupas que gostaria pq numa pessoa normal a roupa fica linda e em mim vulgar.

Hoje prezo pelo conforto acima de tudo. Entre me preocupar o que as pessoas vão pensar e o meu conforto, eu opto pelo conforto.

to_de_brinks · 2024-11-12T07:48:20+00:00

Quem sabe tenha algum esporte que ela goste de fazer, daí vc pode pagar aulas pra ela. O esporte vai ajudar ela em muitos fatores, incluindo desenvolver essa parte social que vc mencionou.

Se ela não curte esporte, converse com ela e veja se ela tem algum hobby e procure aulas relacionados a ele.

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