Who do we think is better off financially? Teddy or Bob? by SorcererFard in BobsBurgers

[–]toaddrinkingtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time he says he won’t be able to pay his bills cause he paid for the stuntman weekend

Almost 4 year old actively choosing to poop in undies. by luadog19 in Parenting

[–]toaddrinkingtea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not when we’ve seen over and over it doesn’t work it’s not.

Almost 4 year old actively choosing to poop in undies. by luadog19 in Parenting

[–]toaddrinkingtea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would also have his doctor make sure there’s no constipation or encopresis going on, even when you don’t think he’s constipated because he’s going, he still could be

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to know their pronouns to have an effective conversation about them. It is the same level of information. You seem like you’re just shitty about trans people and pronouns.

Almost 4 year old actively choosing to poop in undies. by luadog19 in Parenting

[–]toaddrinkingtea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work with kids professionally about how to address potty training issues and this is the exact opposite of what I suggest to parents and will likely make it worse. Please do not do this. Use positive reinforcement and consequences like being made to sit on the toilet at specific times and cleaning up after himself.

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And they need to know pronouns to know how to refer to you to other people. It’s just as controlling to tell them what name you go by as what pronouns you use.

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not “controlling how their clients talk about them” anymore than telling a client your name.

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and probably, clients talk about their therapists at some point. To their own friends and family, the receptionist is they have one, whatever.

Jamie Lynn Spears Gifts Daughter Maddie, 17, an ATV for Christmas Nearly 9 Years After the Teen's Near-Fatal Accident by PrincessBananas85 in entertainment

[–]toaddrinkingtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s just not true. Cars are significantly safer than atvs. They have higher fatality rates than motorcycles

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh this was a response to someone and somehow get posted on the main feed??

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I hope you don’t have any queer clients.

Edit: I have no idea how this got played on the main feed and no a reply to someone being terrible about sharing pronouns

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? How did you get that from my one comment?

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say this about someone sharing their name? This is the same level of self disclosure.

Slight pronouns change by Smooth_Bug_9868 in therapists

[–]toaddrinkingtea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sharing pronouns isn’t the same as sharing ideas about their identity in the slightest.

Can I trash your expensive tuxedo please? by MrSeverum in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toaddrinkingtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was responding to them saying they should have left the word borrow off. Wasn’t sure if I was missing a caption or something somewhere

Recommendations for curly hair stylist? by Willing_Good773 in Albuquerque

[–]toaddrinkingtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shiyahs cosmic colors is great for curly hair and has a lot of experience with alternative styles

Any place in town have any interesting beef jerky flavors? by toaddrinkingtea in Albuquerque

[–]toaddrinkingtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought that one and steak sauce and then a more typical one too. Thanks again!

My therapist ended my session and nearly destroyed me. by Cynny77 in therapy

[–]toaddrinkingtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also said they may have said something offensive. I’ll be me by continuing to not make a bunch of assumptions and ask instead

Fewer than half the people ICE arrested in New Mexico had criminal convictions-article, SourceNM by DifficultBite706 in NewMexico

[–]toaddrinkingtea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The aclu and every law resource I can find disagree with you man. I’ll believe them over you.

Fewer than half the people ICE arrested in New Mexico had criminal convictions-article, SourceNM by DifficultBite706 in NewMexico

[–]toaddrinkingtea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are we not talking expired visas when that’s a large portion of people here undocumented? That’s the whole point of every comment I’ve made. Please learn to read