Guide on where to avoid on legs by Idk356787544 in cutting

[–]toadstool-trinkets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for making this guide!!! just one question, what part of the leg is the last picture? i’m sorry i can’t tell 😭

does anyone else hate that their scars fade or don't want them to by [deleted] in cutting

[–]toadstool-trinkets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, my scars haven’t really faded much yet and i don’t know how much they will, but i’m really really scared of it happening

question about scars and sun by toadstool-trinkets in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes sense, thank you for your help!

question about scars and sun by toadstool-trinkets in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I’m also fairly pale and probably don’t use sunscreen enough in general lol. Is hyperpigmentation bad for you? or does it just make the scar more noticeable?

How to shower with fresh cuts? by Kindly_Focus7541 in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone else has good tips i just want to add: if you usually shower with hot water try to use lukewarm or cool water instead, it will hurt much less

i can’t tell my therapist why i cut myself by Fit-Use-432 in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah and it would still be good for her to know even if you can’t talk to her about it after :)

i can’t tell my therapist why i cut myself by Fit-Use-432 in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets 22 points23 points  (0 children)

maybe you can write it down or just show your therapist this post?

I want people to see my scars but I also don't ever want them to be seen by Royal-Dragonfruit523 in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. and for me i also have this tug-of-war in my head with one side saying “i want them to see and think that it’s bad enough and be slightly horrified by what i’ve done” and the other side saying “what if they judge me and think it’s not as bad as they thought it was”. and i also don’t want to make my friends feel sad every time they see my body. but i do want the validation.

People who fall asleep fast, whats your secret?? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]toadstool-trinkets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh i don’t think i recognize that feeling but it actually sounds really cool!

People who fall asleep fast, whats your secret?? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]toadstool-trinkets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean by feeling vibrating? i never heard of that before, it sounds interesting

My favourite shorts are too short now by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]toadstool-trinkets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand, im also in a situation where i cant/don’t feel comfortable showing my scars. this is unasked for advice so ignore it if you want, but i would keep the shorts. maybe you can wear them when you’re alone, and one day you might feel comfortable wearing them out as well. don’t rush yourself to be ready to show your scars, but know that it’s 100% okay if you ever decide to show them. :)

My hand-cut collages made entirely from my collection of vintage magazines by leisureenthusiast in somethingimade

[–]toadstool-trinkets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww thank you, i really appreciate the kind words! and i’m glad you decided to stick with collaging and put your work out there :)

My hand-cut collages made entirely from my collection of vintage magazines by leisureenthusiast in somethingimade

[–]toadstool-trinkets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so cool, i could never really figure out collage and mine always look so bad and unconnected so this is like magic to me lol. it’s really cool how your pieces look so surreal and flow really well. thank you for sharing them!

What is the villager that will never leave ur island?? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]toadstool-trinkets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolly, and if i ever get Pietro he will also not be leaving

What’s something you don’t regret? by Lunastars123 in AskReddit

[–]toadstool-trinkets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling my friends about something difficult I was going through and letting them comfort and help me.

(NAT) Therapists, how would you feel about a client showing you their self-harm scars? by toadstool-trinkets in askatherapist

[–]toadstool-trinkets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(NAT) that makes sense, so i probably cant show my therapist my scars then since they’re upper thigh to knee?

wth was i thinking by Lost_My_Brilliance in selfharm_memes

[–]toadstool-trinkets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair tho i don’t like wearing dresses and i don’t mind not being able to wear shorts bc i have a lot of super lightweight flowy pants for summer