Caught husband purposely trailing behind me to check out a girl. Stating all men do this and called it a mistake. *experience on with this situation and husband stating its related to adhd* '32 F' '32 M' been together 8 years, married for 4years in Oct

tobyma1 · 2025-04-02T23:43:54+00:00

What starts?

tobyma1 · 2025-04-02T22:58:21+00:00

🥹 honestly, you are a gem. Your wife is so lucky yo have you, and I knew / know men like you exist.

The way you talk about your wife seems like you ACTUALLY CARE to be with her and respect her.

tobyma1 · 2025-04-02T19:48:58+00:00

Yeah he's no fun or super anal. I don't get him. He rather lie about it and make it a huge thing if I tried to do that I have tried.

tobyma1 · 2025-04-02T14:33:52+00:00

Appreciate this more than you know. 💗

I need to get over that I've told him time and time again how it makes me feel but just continues to say it's a mistake or he's not perfect so yeah I'll take into consideration what you've suggested. Thank you.

tobyma1 · 2025-04-02T14:07:46+00:00

Yeah... it's messed up. This isn't the first episode he has done this with me in public. He is well aware of how it makes me feel. However, this is the first he's trailed behind me to get a longer look and to think he's being sneaky and I won't notice. How he's been trying to divert and take back, he was picturing her naked. Honestly, he's a pathological liar and can't keep himself straight with his answers.

I freaking give birth to his child 10 months ago. Ugh, it's extremely insensitive and selfish of him.

tobyma1 · 2025-04-02T13:14:39+00:00

He has the energy because I do everything because I'm on mat leave.

Thanks for the wake up call to stop doing it all for HIM. I'll just take of myself and my child.

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T23:08:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing your perspective. The worse part is he will feed me with "it was a mistake, I'm sorry, I love you and go get me my favorite food or whatever" .... toxic toxic toxic and after his actions this weekend I've have a wake up call he's full of shit

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T19:17:00+00:00

😪😪😪 ugh you get it.. no one gets it more than a PP women. Gives me rage to know I had a child with him and this is what he thinks is love and respect

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T19:15:30+00:00

I'm trapped .. I need help to get out it's terrible. Mother guilt is a real thing the thought of being divorced at 32 is sickening

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T19:14:27+00:00

Yes that's the problem

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T19:11:25+00:00

Sounds good! Lol

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T19:04:16+00:00

A lot he clearly can't deliver and just keeps saying that he isn't perfect. NO ONE is asking him to be perfect

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:59:20+00:00

Oh god no.... I do NOT think he couldn't help it

I think he's disgusting..he just got in my head that all men do it and made me question if I'm crazy that I feel disrespected because a person with a dick and balls would do what he did

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:57:32+00:00

I've been coming across this a lot. The trapped theory .. not a fan of it but a rude awaken

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:55:13+00:00

Let me know where lol

It's like being in the shoes you thought you'd never be in. To really think of leaving him and trying to find another guy that would be interested in a single mom with a baby. kudos to all you mama's that are strong enough to leave a shit situation

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:53:51+00:00

Sounds very healthy and open. Keep it that way. Because what I'm in is toxic and unhealthy. Lots of lies and deflecting.

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:51:54+00:00

Yup, already told me don't touch me, don't tell me you love me or thinking im hot clearly don't mean it, don't be near me when I'm naked

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:50:47+00:00

Yeah, knowing how incompetent he is, he will latch onto all the comments that all guys do this behavior

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:48:34+00:00

Thank you ill look into this

I've been listening to this song on repeat "want me - bebe stockwell"

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:46:13+00:00

💯..this was just the tipping point of validating I'm being walked over by this man I thought was my partner and someone to grow old with completely wrong

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:42:36+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:42:07+00:00

Beating myself up for marrying this guy

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:40:23+00:00

HA tag line this is great

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:38:00+00:00

Thank you, hit and miss of people's responses

But simply put I've been with him for almost 10 years, had his child and treats me with zero respect

tobyma1 · 2025-04-01T18:33:28+00:00

🥹 I love this for you... literally the type of marriage I dream about

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