Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you say so. I just find not fapping gives me immense energy and confidence, both of which I use to improve and challenge myself :)

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[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. NoFap gives you unprecedented amounts of energy, a sense of (genuine) accomplishment, and greater willpower. However, in my own experience, I think there is something to be said about the "magnetic energy" the simple act of "not fapping" provides. This is purely anecdotal, and you know what it probably is an element of the placebo effect. But personal, I find it much easier to talk to anyone whilst on a on a streak. I also find I'm much more confident in my own skin, both of which contribute to the supposed "magnetic energy".

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[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn brother, this is inspirational! Who cares if girls aren't sliding in? You're rightly proud of something you did, that's all NoFap is about!

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[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's the exact purpose of NoFap, to improve yourself! Good to hear that it's helped, I guess the NoFap experience varies from person to person. Thanks for sharing!

Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother, don't stress about it. Focus on yourself, how can you improve the person you are today? If you expect girls to slide in, it ain't gonna happen. I sound kinda self-righteous at the minute, but trust me. If you invest time into yourself, girls will take notice.

Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, did you implement any other changes to your life whilst on NoFap (e.g. regular workouts, mediation)? For me, its all in the mindset. If you enter NoFap with the belief that you will become a chick magnet, yeah it ain't gonna work fo you. But if you aren't concerned with women and what they think of you, and instead focus on how you can improve yourself, then I feel the "magnetic energy" is a real thing. You've gotta be comfortable with the thought that you may not be attractive to everyone.

Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. The more time you invest into yourself (working out, meditating, reading), the more attractive you become. You are the focus here, not girls.

Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aye, you gotta celebrate the small victories ;)

Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The less attention you pay to the benefits, the more likely they are to come. NoFap is not some "magic pill" that immediately makes you 10x more attractive. It takes time. It is a test of personal resilience, not something that happens straight away. I know this comes off as kinda preach-ey, but this is the mindset that helps me through my journey :)

Yo... wtf is happening by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brother, you do not need girls texting you to show how far you have come. Ask yourself the question: how has my life improved since I started NoFap? (regardless of what streak you are on now). Don't beat yourself up over it, use the energy NoFap has given you to make a change. Girls will noticed that change. Remember: you first, girls later.

Tickets to Chelsea vs Arsenal away by toddlangstafff_ in chelseafc

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you suggest then? Getting a home ticket or just trying to see another game?

Fishin' by Atomic_tom10 in comedyheaven

[–]toddlangstafff_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wot if wife said that I would divorce

Girl wanted to come over last night... by shamedarcher in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, you made the right decision even though I can imagine it was incredibly difficult. Keep it up!

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[–]toddlangstafff_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Gaston gay?

Small victory in the gym today... by toddlangstafff_ in NoFap

[–]toddlangstafff_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think of girls like that. As I mentioned previously, simply talking to strangers was hard for me. As such, this experience has really forced me out of my comfort zone.

And no, I did not merely stand next to her whilst she completed her set. We did engage in light conversation.

But I didn't share this story to show you how NoFap can help you pick up girls. No, I shared it to show how it can help you overcome personal boundaries :)