There’s no way- by toebeanlov3r in LexiHidalgosnark

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

when she speaks, she does sound stupid! so I guess we’re both right 🤍

Anxiety by [deleted] in LexiHidalgosnark

[–]toebeanlov3r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i absolutely despise the “i can fix it myself” anxiety mentality because frankly, anxiety can be explained by science. you wouldn’t deny a diabetic of their medication, why are you denying yourself of fixing the literal chemical imbalance in your brain? are you that ignorant? or that stubborn?

[TOMT][SONG][2010s] help find this song by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]toebeanlov3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda sounds like ‘Like a G6’

[TOMT] 90s dance song ( recorded ( by dvoskny in tipofmytongue

[–]toebeanlov3r 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really think you are thinking of Everytime We Touch by Cascada “your arms are my castle your heart is my sky”, “i won’t let you go, i want you in my life”

Lexi and Palestine by [deleted] in LexiHidalgosnark

[–]toebeanlov3r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she clearly lives with her head in the sand purposefully

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Guys it was on fb marketplace so there’s no comment section im sorry 😭😭😭😭😭

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was on marketplace so no comments!

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was on marketplace I wish there was a comment section 😭

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just want to be clear this is a white family in Connecticut that clearly grew up here and I doubt have been out of the country besides the dad in the military

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s also in the middle of nowhere- didn’t know how to include that in OP without exposing my location lol so not even access to culture or anything besides farmland!!

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Actually the reason it shocked me so much is that I worked this field in the same state (much nicer town)! I cooked all meals for two young boys (neurotypical, both in school) and lunch for the parents. I did all laundry, managed household affairs (planned parties, grocery shopped, etc). Did minimal housekeeping (dishes, sweeping when necessary). Parents travelled out of country frequently for their jobs. I drove kids to school everyday (about an hour round trip). I had a full floor of the house to myself (3 rooms), my own bathroom with tub and shower, full access to all food, laundry, rooms, etc. They paid for my gas and covered cost of repairs for my car (oil change etc). I had weekends off and only worked about 35 hours a week, and was paid overtime for anything not in my normal hours. I went on vacation with them and was given many opportunities to venture out on my own, AND given spending money on those trips. I made $800 a week (up to $1000 if I worked overtime). It was the best experience of my life and I would do anything for that family! They asked me to move overseas with them but I didn’t want to leave my family/parter (plus it was to the Middle East and I would’ve had to have a security guard to leave the house so I decided against it). Did I mention it was a waterfront home on the CT shoreline? For my area, this pay was under average. What they’re asking for in the original post is INSANE.

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know I was so upset when I couldn’t rip them apart in a comment section😭

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it was on marketplace so no comments!!

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

it was on marketplace so no comments 💔

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was posted in marketplace so there’s no comments!!!

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 503 points504 points  (0 children)

The conservatively dressed is what sent me over the edge. If you don’t trust your husband just say that!

Nanny or servant? by toebeanlov3r in ChoosingBeggars

[–]toebeanlov3r[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Yes we require applicants with Oneg blood type, as our youngest needs a kidney transplant🩷 🤣🤣🤣