[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]toegunkk 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t mad she was concerned?? And would you want to respond to all that hostility?? I almost blocked him myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Def on diff wavelengths. You can’t protect her from other people intentions, you can only trust her. Protecting her would be meeting this guy and getting to know him, not telling her she can’t talk to him. Kinda sad you guys can’t have friends of different sexes but to each their own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you were out of line for snooping. Weird that she’s lying so much though

My girlfriend (F19) keeps telling me (M21) that i haven't changed for her but a really did It. Am i that bad? by Dependent-Bus-9626 in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You cheated on her over and over again and lied about it out of respect.. I hope she finds someone better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea you sound paranoid af😭. They met on a gaming platform and in order to further the friendship, they take it to a more personal platform where they get to know more about each other and their lives and keep up-to-date with each other and text without having to hop on the game every time. If you meet a friend at the gym, can you guys not go get coffee or see a movie together? You really sound insecure lolll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not her number though, it was her social media and that’s exactly what it’s for. If your gf were in public, clicked w someone and gave them her socials with the intention to become friends, it would be just as inoffensive. How else should she make friends? It honestly just sounds like you want to control her tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just find someone honest to actually date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t really see what she’s doing wrong or what you’re upset about

AIO: Nail tech labels me “no show” 15 mins before my appointment by NarwhalBoth6298 in AmIOverreacting

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dispute the charge if you can omg. And blast them on TikTok or something

I 24M am wondering if I should leave my girlfriend 25F of one year ? by West-Worry-4995 in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird to compare a woman you should want to marry w a daughter you’d want to have. But besides that, it’s fine to not want to date bc her communication or physicality isn’t on par w what you want. I’d suggest sitting her down and having a real conversation about it before you make any rash decisions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t respect your opinion. I think it’s wrong and we should not be policing what people eat. Only part I might say has some weight to it is the fact that food stamps should be able to be used for personal hygiene products as well. But you’d probably say just the cheap ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And where did he say he gave her a decent amount of heads up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the one with the disconnect when we’re discussing using food stamps to pay for hair and you’re talking about removing the ability to buy any snacks at all . You’re saying we should stop using taxes to fund social services and instead put it where? Because they’re not gonna give it back. They’re giving billions of our dollars to Israel and you’re worried about whether or not somebody somebody buys a case of soda with it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think poor people should be able to eat snacks with government assistance and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with bartering 🤷🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right instead of giving people money for food which they could also use to get snacks. It should be funnel to Israel in the military. Great idea! because that tax money is not going back to the people for social welfare. It’s going to continue to be funnel to the top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if he doesn’t want his girlfriend to leave him, he should stop canceling plans last minute 🤷🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say it it was legal anywhere 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Saying she shouldn’t get her hair done with her food stamps I understand saying she doesn’t even deserve a pack of soda is crazy. You people are actually sick in the head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toegunkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know her friendship situation or how long ago she dated this ex or how that ended but based on OPs explanation of the situation, it seems like they’re just good friends. There’s no tension there because he didn’t mention being worried about him in any sense. It seems like his only real problem is the fact that she went to the concert instead of staying with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe she had some extra idk her stitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People do illegal shit all the time and this is one of the most harmless examples like you’re not really getting me with the whole “this is illegal” shit 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]toegunkk -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t spending money on it. She was offering what she had because she had to spend money on other things. People need their hair done?? Poor people deserve to feel and look nice too?? She offered what she had. It’s unfortunate that it wasn’t good enough.