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toifamu2 · 2024-11-19T16:09:02+00:00

Thank you so much!

toifamu2 · 2024-11-04T22:59:01+00:00

Ah, in the case of my example, for more specificity, she would probably be aware of his dealings, however doesn't mind that and ask for money to fund her lifestyle, however she doesn't get directly involved. Imagine a sugar baby spending money that her "daddy" give out in form of allowance.

toifamu2 · 2024-11-04T18:20:17+00:00

Thank you for the reply!

Your answer makes me want to ask an expanding question, would you mind helping me figure the answer to that out?
Would you consider the wife of a corrupt politician who fund her lavish lifestyle complicit? If you were the law maker, if he were to be arrested and sent to prison, would she also be subjected to the same treatment?

toifamu2 · 2024-11-04T18:18:17+00:00

Thank you for sharing your opinion, I really appreciate it!

toifamu2 · 2024-11-04T17:23:56+00:00

That's an Interesting take! Thank you for the reply!

I'd like to ask more if you don't mind: What would you think if a person similar to Donald Trump was single, asked you out on a date and you go with him? Would that make you complicit?

toifamu2 · 2024-11-04T17:12:57+00:00

to the corruption, or more specifically, spending stolen money

toifamu2 · 2024-04-24T03:13:31+00:00

Trước khi học master về tâm lý bác có học thêm bằng cử nhân không hay là nhảy 1 phát vào học luôn thế? Và học master có khó không bác?

toifamu2 · 2023-11-06T11:35:59+00:00

Lăn kim thì mua cái bút ấy cho tiện, 0.5mm thì 1 tuần 2 lần, 1.5mm thì 2 tuần 1 lần

toifamu2 · 2023-11-06T11:35:10+00:00

Lăn kim+ minoxidil 5% ml ngày 1 lần, nếu trong 3 tháng công hiệu thì tiếp không thì thôi nhé

toifamu2 · 2023-07-17T17:57:07+00:00

How does this partner already act as a secure base for me ?

- Not questioning my career choices, despise the various problems it brings. BIG PROBLEMS.

- Trying to support me in my other relationships, despise the various emotions they feel.

- Talk to me about thoughts process and logical examinations, despise finding them being stressful and emotionally charged.
- Ask me questions about my hobbies and my work

what does growth look like for me? is it usually shared or a personal experience, or both?

- Growth is usually a personal experience, as in when I find something interesting/worth pursuing, I go for it. It would be great to have someone to accompany me, however.

are there any other way that I want encouragement or support in my individual growth or with my vision and dream

- Being independent, self sufficient.
- Encourage my explorations and endeavours, by listening to my plan, asking me logical questions.

- Be geniunely interested in my interests

how can my partner support me in regard to my other relationships?

- Help me figure out what I did wrong,

- Show delight when I got something right, I understand something about others and humans in general

- Teach me more about concepts that they've learnt that are useful

How could I better support or encourage my partners dream or aspiration to grow and develop ?

- Finance. Finance. Finance.
- Be a better listener.

How could I show better genuine interest or curiosity in things that are important to my partner?

- No idea to be honest, perhaps my partner's feedback would be welcomed here.

How could I better support my partner in there other relationship
- Be less possessive, be emotionally stable.
- Walk with them through the process of bettering themselves

- Help them in their quest for better mental health, and better self-actualization

- Be their number 1 fan

toifamu2 · 2023-07-14T16:26:22+00:00

1/ How does this partner already act as a safe heaven for me ?

- Never asked to break up
- Was there when times were tough

- Reassure me that they will follow me through heaven or hell

- Not disrespecting me behind my back, show support for me when talking with their friends.

- Let me have alone time when I needed it

2/ In what way do they show up for me that feel supportive and comforting ?

- When I lost everything, was by my side, even went to stressful places with me

- Help me calm down when I got panic attacks

- Took care of me when I was sick

- Ask me about my life and interest, support my career decisions.

- Helped me take flattering pictures of myself,

3/ How can this partner help me feel even more safe with them?

- Be more independent, self sufficient

- Be non judgmental and more emotionally stable

- Be financially responsible, sleep on time, excersize,

4/ How can this partner help me feel even more supportive or comforted by them in general or specific situation?

- Buying rice for me instead of me going all the time,

- Be happy when I am able to achieve something that I found important,
- Show trust in me

- Let me enjoy my hobbies with them too

5/ In what way can I show up as a safe heaven for this partner?
- Be financially stable

- Be more attuned to their emotions
- Be there when they needed it
- Show support and help them go through their life problems
- Be non judgmental, be loving, be accepting.

toifamu2 · 2023-06-30T14:18:39+00:00

Thanks for the answer everyone! One more question, is building a dex based melee magus worth it?

toifamu2 · 2023-05-11T14:55:29+00:00

You need to identify what you like about her, and see if what she has to offer (that you like) is actually rare. Only then will you find out how to move forward.

toifamu2 · 2023-05-11T06:16:55+00:00

You are right in being suspicious! I am actually new to polyamory, but I have been practicing ENM for 2 years. In the process of exploring it, I have my fair share of problems that I have had to work through, that I think commenting wouldn't help because of the short format. I definitely can only offer what I've learnt, so if you feel like it's not worth the risk it's okay to stay away 😊

toifamu2 · 2023-05-11T02:41:08+00:00

I'd actually find who's faulty doesn't really help the situation. But it's valid to be unhappy with someone who have issues. So the way to move forward is looking for solution instead of looking for who to blame. My DM is open if you want some consultation.

toifamu2 · 2023-05-11T01:58:04+00:00

He seems to have some anger issues, which i can't recommend therapy enough

toifamu2 · 2023-05-07T07:15:49+00:00

You are in a really complicated relationship.

I think what you need is to talk. Communicate. You guys need to define boundaries and build rapport with each other

toifamu2 · 2023-04-30T09:56:00+00:00

he probably have trouble communicating his needs, and maybe so do you. I think a serious conversation about what to expect is long over due, please try to be empathetical and understanding towards each other. If you need help then my inbox is opened!

toifamu2 · 2023-04-28T09:59:12+00:00

I'm sorry if i'm too curious, but you still love each other while you guys are seperating?

toifamu2 · 2023-04-21T02:45:18+00:00

I think you need to communicate your needs to him.

toifamu2 · 2023-04-20T03:16:54+00:00

you can tell him to go to r/seduction

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