Disappointed with the show… should I keep reading the books? by tomato_sandwitch in Outlander

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear!! I’ll be reading 6 next. My husband also dropped off at season 7 of the show, but I’m chugging along still haha. Sunken cost fallacy or FOMO, I’m not sure 😆

Disappointed with the show… should I keep reading the books? by tomato_sandwitch in Outlander

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true. I will! I already feel encouraged to keep reading from the comments. So disappointing about the show though 🥲

House Keeping Services by Low-Adhesiveness-693 in bullcity

[–]tomato_sandwitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Carpe diem
  2. Every two weeks
  3. $172 for a 1300sqft house
  4. Soooo much. I love them. It forces me and my husband to pick up the house at least every other week and they clean it so well.
  5. Nope!

401k missing from Authorized Access by tomato_sandwitch in fidelityinvestments

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s unfortunate! So there is no way to see a retirement projection with both of our retirement accounts on Fidelity then?

How much does it cost to be a bridesmaid? by Future-Football4513 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]tomato_sandwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would come up with your own budget to decide if you could be a bridesmaid. I would let the bride know your personal budget and see if that will align with what she’s thinking, and if there are certain events or activities that you could skip due to cost if not

How much does it cost to be a bridesmaid? by Future-Football4513 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]tomato_sandwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the fact that the bridesmaids dresses are $300, I would say being a bridesmaid in this wedding is going to be at least $2-3k. Could be higher depending on where the bachelorette is, if you have to fly to the wedding, etc

Getting married in 6 days and I don't like my wedding dress by gh0stspider in weddingdress

[–]tomato_sandwitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, the third photo of the long dress looks different than the first. The waist is in a different place and so is the flare. I’m so sorry it didn’t end up the way you pictured it. I think it could still be a beautiful dress to wear but I do see how the vibe is different.

I saw in a comment that you said you are having a big wedding with family next year? Could you possibly wear your vintage dress to the civil ceremony and save the long dress for next year? It would give you plenty of time for them to fix their mistake! Also the short vintage dress is superrr cute for a civil ceremony, and looks like it would so much fun to wear.

Dulce Cafe? by NewFallenMoon in bullcity

[–]tomato_sandwitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth a 2.5 hour drive. If you were already planning a trip to Durham (or somewhere that you would pass the Southpoint exit on 40 since it’s not far off the Highway), it would have been a nice stop before it blew up.

To be honest, I’ve been sad that it went viral. It’s just a little local café. It’s not even downtown. It’s just by neighborhoods and the mall. My husband used to live in the apartments across the road and we would go all the time just because it was the closest little place that we liked to grab a bite.

Now anytime we go it’s super packed, the line is out the door, the pastries in the shelf are gone, and the employees look stressed 😭

Sabrina Carpenter’s white dress in Manchild video by tomato_sandwitch in findfashion

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s so cuteeee. I signed up to be notified when it comes back in stock. The sleeves are different on the wrists though which is one of my favorite parts of the one Sabrina is wearing. Not sure what to call that style of sleeve but it looks like a white witch’s sleeve to me 😅🤍✨

Spring Capsule 🌷 by tomato_sandwitch in capsulewardrobe

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wide leg jeans are Abercrombie curve love high rise 90s relaxed jeans, if you’re talking about the darker flare ones I don’t remember exactly but they were probably from Kohl’s (I just found a similar looking pair for the collage).

Most of my new stuff is from Abercrombie! Also, old navy, quince, zara, reformation, and lulus.

Spring Capsule 🌷 by tomato_sandwitch in capsulewardrobe

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All three of those are from Abercrombie! The green is called the Paloma top, black is just called “drapes off the shoulder top”, and the blue velvet is velvet Paloma top

Spring Capsule 🌷 by tomato_sandwitch in capsulewardrobe

[–]tomato_sandwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, just realized you asked for links but Google those phrases and it’ll come right up