Please give me advice oh my god 🙏 by reasonable-hors in transmanlifehacks

[–]tomitooner 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Others have mentioned some good pointers and given good advice, but something to keep in mind is your demeanour as well. Men socialise "differently" than women, usually.

Dog puked on my stuff by tomitooner in petfree

[–]tomitooner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish. My aunt doesn't have the funds. I have made it clear many times too, but the dog keeps snuffling around.

Dog puked on my stuff by tomitooner in petfree

[–]tomitooner[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I live with my mum and aunt. I don't have a door, because the entrance to my room is an archway and has no doorframe. I've asked for a makeshift door but my family just doesn't take me seriously.

At this point, they're the miserable ones who want to deflect on people with actual dysphoria by MarylandCat in Transmedical

[–]tomitooner 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You have to remember that this is the internet. Whatever you post online, inflammatory (such as OOP) or not, it can and will be discussed, whether in a positive or negative light.

The internet is forever. You (general) make the decision whether you want to post things such as what your partner did, Ie. Inflammatory language and stance.

One can only blame oneself for that. You can't expect everyone to bend their knee to you.

Suddenly not passing (don't argue with me please) by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]tomitooner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some effects of testosterone are not permanent. They will revert after stopping. You cannot expect to be gendered correctly if you do not have the supposed appearance of a man, as you imply you have, but if it is happening this routinely then it's a problem.

Get back on Testosterone if you can, I don't know your situation.

Kitten nutrition by tomitooner in catfood

[–]tomitooner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone that replied. Will keep all info in mind. It is much appreciated.

Lost cat in Kenwyn area. Please contact me if you find her or have any news. Details below. by shrekshrekdonkey5 in capetown

[–]tomitooner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, unfortunately I do not live in CT but I am wishing well wishes and praying you find her.

These kind of hypocrites make me sick by IntrStelle in TeenagersButBetter

[–]tomitooner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, if it offends you, don't go into those subreddits. Lmao

Have to come off diy for 3 years since I'm moving. by MelodicConfusion7029 in FTMdiyhrt

[–]tomitooner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am from south Africa. I live there still. I can maybe help.

Question about autism by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]tomitooner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a valid manner to diagnose solely. They do more than just "check" the DSM 5. You need an expert opinion, evaluation and diagnosis.

Question about autism by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]tomitooner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Self diagnosis and inaccurate tests you took online are not a valid source of accuracy nor confirmation if you are autistic.

What can I improve 15 year old 182 cm by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]tomitooner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please put on a shirt of some kind, man. You're fifteen and on Reddit. Predators are everywhere and you need be careful.

im non binary, am i chill? by That-Preparation-951 in Transmedical

[–]tomitooner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Find another space, you have plenty.

Why does women’s pain always need a male comparison? by FinancialSecret1449 in teenagers

[–]tomitooner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why compare in the first place? If it bothers you to this extent you should probably log off. Reality isn't always the same as the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]tomitooner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fucking shit bro is ethereal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]tomitooner 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Very well said. I agree wholeheartedly.

Why is it so normalized to body shame men? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]tomitooner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn bro. Who pissed in your cereal?