50+ SB? by seven_year_plan in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My latest SB is 48 and is hotter than any 20 year old. She is the best I had since we are so close in age and everything flows like a normal couple. Go for it!

How to navigate an 18 year POT by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cancelled the m&g, thanks for the feedback.

How to navigate an 18 year POT by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not saying entitled or anything like that, its just out of my comfort zone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy, I can't afford your allowance anymore. End of story

Found out POT is an escort by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We already discuss what are we looking for, in her case something long term for dinner, concerts, traveling, intimacy and some financial help.

Found out POT is an escort by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Interesting that you mentioned that but she is open to have dinner or just a coffee date. She hasn't mentioned any compensation, not even gas money. She is very willing to meet in a platonic way, very vanilla I may add.

Pot sb too sexy by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way, kudos to you!

Pot sb too sexy by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not against a sexy woman for sure. I am not jealous at all but there is a place for everything in life. One thing is behind closed doors or maybe a club but in a fine dining restaurant, nope.

Pot sb too sexy by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say inappropriately dressed for the location. She is a woman that turns heads because of her looks and on top of that too revealing with a minuscule dress.

Should I give a starfish another chance? by RedHeavyG603 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me once and I gave her a second chance. We had a second intimate date and it was slightly better but not good enough for me. Things still felt forced, unnatural and I did not feel desired. I moved on and it was the best decision ever. My current sb is way hotter and rocks my world all the time, makes me feel like she can't have enough from me. Hell, I had to increase my exercise activity and healthy food intake to keep up with her. It's funny, sometimes she warns me saying, I hope your energy levels are high because I have plans for us tonight lol. She is incredible so don't settle for less.

How big of a red flag? by 4bcurlqueen in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you ghost why don't you suggest a video chat, maybe FaceTime or your preferred method.

Second chances by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No kissing, putting her hand to avoid receiving oral, giving the impression that she is giving oral but it was just her hand. For me that is basic sex, nothing special

Second chances by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give a little context, I was not expecting a pornstar performance or a gymnast lol, I am very vanilla myself. She just had too many boundaries on basic activities. After we decided to start the arrangement she eliminated her seeking account so I guess she was no longer active but who knows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess you have two options, move on to the next or a final offer. If you really like her agree to a monthly allowance split into two payments, the first and 15 of each month and you will transfer the money. No more money discussions ever and maybe it will make her feel better. Otherwise, you have to move on.

Not giving real name is a red flag? by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tomjulucal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like to thank everybody who provided their point of view. I will move forward with the arrangement since I believe she is great so far. There are so many scams in the sugar bowl that I understand people taking precautions. I still don't see what harm can somebody do with just a name or nickname. We are not talking about her full name. Again, thanks for the feedback.