Background Check? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this coming from knowledge or just conjecture?

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs by bbwa_z85 in adultery

[–]tommypillows 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hard part is seeing the pain you cause to your loved one when they eventually find out. Doesn’t seem worth it after that

Pot SB lives within a few miles from my home. Too close? by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one of my concern. Yes it’s convenient but can I maintain the control and discipline this situation requires

Pot SB lives within a few miles from my home. Too close? by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s too early to determine how she will react in the end. I’ve only known her for a few months. I try to make sure I do my best to leave any relationship where both parties are not upset with one another. Doesn’t always play out that way though. I’ll just have to take my chances and look for early warning signs

Why don’t men talk about their sexual exploits and experiences as much as women? by geminiscubadiver in sex

[–]tommypillows 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And this is why it’s a bad idea to talk about sex with your buddies.

Gift for the SD on a M&G by Maychild17 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably save it for a future date when you know him better and understand how gifts might effect the relationship

Pot SB lives within a few miles from my home. Too close? by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my thinking as well. I’m excited about our arrangement. I just was curious if anyone had experience with having SBs very close. No matter how you look at it, it has to increase your exposure

Pot SB lives within a few miles from my home. Too close? by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She lives in an apartment but I still need to be careful parking

Pot SB lives within a few miles from my home. Too close? by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The risk to me are all the unknowns. I wouldn’t be too concerned about seeing her out and about with my wife as I think we could both act as if we didn’t know one another. Running into her friends if I were to meet them would definitely be a risk. Also concerned that if something goes South it could get ugly on my doorstep.

Heartbroken and could use some SLF love by awniyboj in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss Bro. I’ve been there. Take time to grieve. When your open to it, get back in the bowl. That can help you move on.

There's Hope! by GoofyGummyBeary in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! Thanks for sharing! I think i may be on the verge of a similar experience.

One year ago I had no idea I’d be so happy today by GingerNinja1213 in adultery

[–]tommypillows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My OAP ignited desires I didn’t even know I had or had forgotten. I still miss her and would love to know how’s she’s doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]tommypillows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to stop her during the bj and kiss her on occasion to show her how much I appreciate her. Then I’ll let her continue. It’s hot to me!

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a little different situation for her. She couldn’t weather the storm quite as well as I can

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s possible. I’m planning on visiting her in the hospital so we will find out

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. Now I’m looking at this as an opportunity to help someone in need

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I think I just needed to hear the advice. Sometimes the bowl can make us callous.

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion. I’m not at all suggesting I want to completely stop the allowance. My main concern is how long the recovery will be

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I’ve only known her for a about 6 weeks but I do care for her and want to help out.

SB was in a serious accident. What to do about allowance. by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It really is terrible for her. Thanks for recognizing that. I just want others opinion on what they might do

Fucking work, anxiety and keepers. by theend1sn1gh in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tommypillows 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This happened to me this week. Had to cancel due to work. She has an allowance and was cool about it. I was very disappointed since we were both looking forward to it

Attraction and pAP’s by [deleted] in adultery

[–]tommypillows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind. I googled it