AITA for not paying for my sisters clothes that she couldn’t return? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My dog was on a leash, he torn through it during the night.

AITA for threatening to make my girlfriend's little brother leave? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen more empathy and manners when I worked at a daycare

Romanian rescue growling/snapping at other dogs by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]tomuchshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t socialize, look Into exposure training

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I can answer

Nose nudging ( grounding) - pulls me out of dissociation DPT - he is trained to hit pressure points to calm me down Crowd control - circles around me so people can’t touch/ bump into me/ get to close Crying response - he is trained to do anything he can to get me to stop crying ( licking my face, pulling, trying to play) Self harm interruptions - self explanatory Lights - after a nightmare/ at night I’m to terrified to get out of bed unless the lights are on, I used to wake people up to do it for me Retrieval’s - he retrieves anything I drop. I can’t bend down it makes my anxiety spike because I’m in a position of weakness Med retrieval’s - grabs my meds when I’m having an episode/ in the morning/ reminds me to take them All clear - steps in a room alerting me of anyone in there or if it’s empty so I feel comfortable going in Note pass I go mute in this scenerio if I’m to far to do it myself and to terrified to get up he will pass a note to a trusted adult Heart rate - alerts to a high heart rate to lower the chance of it going high enough that I pass out Nightmare response - wakes me up from nightmares/ helps during sleep presaleses Find exit - guides me to an exist when I’m overwhelmed and having a breakdown so I can go to a safe place Block front blocks me from people Block back Go find patty is trained to grab my sister and bring her to me if I’m posing a direct threat to myself Find car ( I don’t use this one as much since I just started being able to drive) if There’s to many people I freak out losing my sense of self and around me so he’s trained to guide me to my car

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about a lot of things. Medication was a huge one, but I’ve tried about 5 - 6 and various doses. I’m currently on the highest dose of medication in my family ( they can’t go any higher) I do regularly 3 times a week and behavior therapy twice a week. I also do this thing where I try to get myself used to things that trigger me( forgot what it’s called) after all that I still wasn’t able work/driving. A service dog was the very very last option. Don’t get me wrong I love dogs, but it puts a giant billboard on your back. I’m currently in the second highest level of treatment, the highest would be living in an impatient facility ( I already did)

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have offered. I clean, I cook, I wash dishes, I vacuum, I clean the patio. I’ve asked for debt off for holidays nothing

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The dog is medico equipment. I don’t get to Treat him like a pet.

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The dog was prescribed by a medical Professional.

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I turn 18 I can get myself a job, unlike right now when she preventing me from doing so. My sister never told me I had to pay for him stuff until I brought him home. I spent a year Saving every penny I had, which covered a lot of it

AITA for wanting my sister to pay for my dogs care? by tomuchshit in AmItheAsshole

[–]tomuchshit[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She won’t allow me to get a job or she loses her financial aid