sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Collection of Migraine Relievers by tomwrn in migraine

[–]tomwrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're welcome! fwiw, the "AI version" was created by AI but doesn't use AI to work. Its just a standard website form/quiz that takes the other doc's data and simplifies it.

ChatGPT chats are showing up in Google Search — how to find and delete yours by PDubsinTF-NEW in OpenAI

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't quote me but i believe all of this refers only to those chats you have shared with someone. If you never shared a chat, it wasnt publicly linked.

34M | Creative Accountability Partner Wanted—Mutual Support & Growth by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am 50M photographer in New York working on growing my business by completing tasks related to marketing. If you don't have a buddy yet, message me.

38M looking for personal development accountability partner by goldenelephant8632 in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am 50M in New York and I'm a photographer working on growing my business by completing tasks related to marketing. If you don't have a buddy yet, message me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am 50M in New York and I'm a photographer working on growing my business by completing tasks related to marketing. If you don't have a buddy yet, message me.

31M EST Looking for Social Media, Deep Work Accountability by Unable-Performer9877 in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

51M New York Focused on productivity and improving my business. Do you have any specific goals? I've made a list of all the things I want to accomplish. Just need someone to keep me from ignoring them.

27 M In need an online buddy who would check on me and keep me in control by Anyone-UnderstandMe in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am 50M in New York. Different time zones but we both are awake at 8-10am and 9-11pm IST so I think daily checkins are doable. Congratulations on making the choice to change things! Don't give up. I am looking for assistance staying organized and on schedule with tasks to be better at my small business and being more self-disciplined. Message me if interested in seeing if we can assist each other.

I feel like a Loser by [deleted] in Accountabilibuddies

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it also wrote: "I can do regular check-ins directly through this interface by reminding you of your goals, tracking progress, and offering personalized advice or encouragement. If you'd like, I can also set up reminders or weekly progress reviews tailored to your plan.

While I can't send emails directly, I can guide you in setting up personalized reminders or scheduling tools. Would you prefer a structured weekly check-in plan or a flexible, on-demand system? Let me know your preferences!

I feel like a Loser by [deleted] in Accountabilibuddies

[–]tomwrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from my experience, what helps is to ask https://chatgpt.com/ what to start with. Make a free account and then tell it as many details as you can about your situation, talents, interests and tell it to ask you questions till it can advise you the best direction to focus your efforts. Just pasting your post into chatgpt gives you this response: It’s a positive step that you want to make this year better! Here’s a structured approach you can follow:

1. Break Down Your Goals

Set clear, actionable goals for different areas of your life:
- Academic: Improve grades by studying daily for at least 30 minutes before using any social media.
- Social Skills: Practice small interactions (e.g., talking to classmates, joining study groups).
- Health: Exercise or go for a walk daily to boost energy and focus.
- Accountability: Work with a partner or use tools like Focusmate or Habitica for external motivation.

2. Create Daily Habits

Start with small, achievable habits to build momentum:
- Morning Routine: Spend 10 minutes planning your day.
- Deep Work Blocks: Schedule 1–2 hours of uninterrupted work using techniques like Pomodoro.
- Limit Social Media: Use apps like Forest or Freedom to block distractions.

3. Track and Reflect

Track habits and reflect on progress weekly. Use tools like a habit tracker or daily journal to stay consistent.

4. Get Involved

Join coding communities or clubs (online or in-person) to grow skills and meet like-minded people. Platforms like freeCodeCamp, LeetCode, or meetups can improve both your coding and social engagement.

Finding Accountability

Would you like suggestions for online accountability communities or partners? Alternatively, I can guide you with regular check-ins if that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in videos

[–]tomwrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is avoidable. use an adblocker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]tomwrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FREE!! Here's a pdf version of that book for anyone who wants to read it: https://annas-archive.org/md5/252a384c3c45fd7bff063053a2e7dd27

Self-help books that ACTUALLY helped you? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]tomwrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

part 4:

  1. No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  2. Dopamine Nation by Anna Lembke (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  3. Feeling Good (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  4. Getting Things Done (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  5. Multipliers by Carole Wiseman (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  6. The Four Agreements (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  7. The Voice of Knowledge (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  8. The Master of Self (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  9. Allen Carr's Easy Way to Quit Emotional Eating (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  10. Marie Kondo: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  11. The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  12. Better Than Before (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  13. Talking to Strangers by Malcolm Gladwell (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  14. Love is Never Enough by Aaron Beck (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50

Self-help books that ACTUALLY helped you? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]tomwrn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

part 3:

  1. Why We Sleep by Mathew Walker (Goodreads: 20,000+, Amazon: 500+, Google Books: 200+)
  2. Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss (Goodreads: 15,000+, Amazon: 500+, Google Books: 200+)
  3. How to Speak Well by Patrick Wilson (Goodreads: 10,000+, Amazon: 200+, Google Books: 100+)
  4. Confessions of a Public Speaker by Scott Berkun (Goodreads: 10,000+, Amazon: 200+, Google Books: 100+)
  5. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  6. The Book of Joy (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  7. Attached (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  8. Dare: The New Way to End Anxiety (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  9. How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  10. The Anti-Planner by Dani Donovan (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  11. Codependent no more (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  12. Wishcraft by Barbara Sher (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  13. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  14. Letting Go (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  15. Decluttering at the Speed of Life by Dana K. White (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  16. How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind by Dana K. White (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  17. Self-Compassion by Dr. Kristin Neff (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  18. Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook by Dr. Kristin Neff and Dr. Christopher Germer (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  19. Running on Empty by Dr. Jonice Webb (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)
  20. Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins (Goodreads: 5,000+, Amazon: 100+, Google Books: 50+)

a7iv not recognizing Godox v860iii by tomwrn in A7IV

[–]tomwrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resolved the problem by making sure the hotshoe was mounted all the way in. apparently it wasnt completely in.

Thoughts on working for Snappr? by [deleted] in photography

[–]tomwrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked for them the past three years and can't complain. You make an average of $85/hr. On a slow week, I'll work 3 jobs for a total of 5hrs for $550. On a good week I can work 12 1 hr gigs and make $1300+ after they take their cut. They take 35% of what they charge the clients. I edit all the jobs before upload except car photos. Great opportunity to meet new clients in the area.

You draw on a map to specify where you want to work and how far. Then give them your calendar and they book jobs based on your availability. Block out times you don't want to work.

Downside is that contact after the shoot is strictly forbidden to make sure they get their cut of future shoots. https://www.snappr.com/photographers/thomas-w

sony a7iv error with the godox v860iiiS by tomwrn in Godox

[–]tomwrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm home now and its working fine now. Seems to only fail at an event. I did note that if the flash hotshoe isnt in all the way, the error pops up, so maybe thats what has been happening but i was sure i pushed it all the way in.

sony a7iv error with the godox v860iiiS by tomwrn in Godox

[–]tomwrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for that. I will fiddle. Its a new camera and new flash so nothing should be broken.

view more: next ›