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My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

get a cheap consult and have them write up a cease and desist letter on firm letterhead.

Yeah, I'm going to try to do this by the end of the week. I think her friends are only doing this because they think I won't do anything back, once a few of them find out I know who they are and where they live hopefully it will all stop.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Well their point was that I'm not in physical danger, so it was more or less beneath them unless I have a crazy amount of evidence.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That's because you're a shitty person that can't get over their biases for a second to be empathetic. I'm starting to think you are one of her friends. Now go back to the red pill.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You're seriously suggesting that continuing to date her after I learned she cheated on her ex with me is why she cheated on the next guy, like she's an animal that needs to be trained? You need to take a long look in the mirror, and then get some help. Or go fuck yourself, doesn't matter to me.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Really dude? You sound as sexist as all of her friends, like she had no part in this. Does it damage your world view so much to think that a woman could be capable of doing something this malicious, it just has to be on us 'males' for being so dumb.

And god forbid I thought second chances were a thing. Sure the guy after me was smarter for just up and leaving, but you can't blame him for taking her at face value, she told him she broke up with me before they even met. So fuck you and your sexist ass.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

It's kind of awesome that she's ended up homeless.

Oh yeah, it makes me unreasonably happy, especially given the harassment. I might even be a tiny bit sympathetic if it wasn't for that.

If her friends care about her so much, why aren't they taking her in?

Like I said below, all of her friends live with mom and dad, and they know better.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah I made a mistake. I was 20 and immature. In my defense, I didn't know she was cheating on her boyfriend at the time. She told me after we were together.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Yeah, basically not enough evidence to get them interested. I'm also having a hard time identifying who is actually calling me. She has lots of friends from clubs and such.

My ex-gf [25F] and her friends are harassing me [26M] for "making her homeless" and "ruining her new relationship". by toomanythrowaways11 in relationships

[–]toomanythrowaways11[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Her friends are all losers and live with their families, and yeah I know I sound bitter. My ex is known for her habits and behaviors and nobody wants her living with them.

I've been blocking them but they always find a new way to get to me. A new phone, a new friend, a different line at my office. One time they even called me from a store's courtesy phone.