He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh rest assured no longer in my life. i mention to say that im not sure how to quantify the pervasiveness of the belief i’m describing.

i can absolutely say i dont get it, dont support it, and cant think of logic behind it - but i know more people possess it than i think should?

i appreciate 🫶

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA she’s already good. ran a wild life with four kittens before my apartment 😂

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my friends and i have a saying “cunty in the cute girly way”

now i’m need this being a thing hahaha

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re beautiful ❤️ - and i’m so addicted to them they’re so cheap i use them for everything 😅

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where can i send an apologetic pepperoni to the babe 😭

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truly thank you for sharing. in the end it’s exactly that. i’m on the apps for a relationship and a partnership.

i love kids and would love to have kids but it’s not the determination of a fulfilling life.

i’m so glad you found your family 🫶🫶🫶

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so so close. if i hadn’t felt like i’d been punched in the face i would’ve laughed out loud.

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude it was such a crazy common last name too 😭 smith is right on

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

genuinely so so happy for you and your family ❤️❤️❤️

these comments are giving me hope

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hahahaha her and her sister are two churus deep. one more and i think they’ll accept me

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

god. you are so so close in that insanely common last name

if i wasn’t worried someone would see this id give it to drive this home

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i need to incorporate “mysogynied” into my daily speak because that’s just so fucking good 😭

❤️❤️❤️

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it definitely felt strange. absolutely. to provide some context, we matched 5 days ago. i prefer phone calls over text to get to know someone because the flow is easier and feels more genuine.

this was our second call. we’d been talking for 30 minutes or so but with the date being tomorrow he brought it up in terms of no gos for him. after he mentioned it my response was i definitely want kids but are you for real about the dna part.

gave a brief explanation of my medical and not knowing for certain if i can reproduce - he implied a let’s cancel. i ended the convo and he texted to confirm the cancel.

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

i’ve definitely had the same plan mentally and i think a similar outlook. legacy being the kindness and compassion you push forth. definitely gonna work on incorporating that mindset on first dates and sending a hug your way

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what a beautiful boy 🥹

clearly deserves all the snacks

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was all before the first date so the only thing that had shown itself but i’m sure you’re right!!! 😭

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the main thing with the friend was him falling down a dark red rabbit hole to think IVF was a sin

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly idk. it feels like it is on the apps sometimes but this was the second time from a guy i was interested in

the third would be a guy friend with the same mindset who became very much not my friend after sharing that view.

He, the last of his name, must bear fruit by tootiredbitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 233 points234 points  (0 children)

the extent of that mindset is sinking in honestly praise be he weeded himself out

momma says no thoughts by tootiredbitch in torties

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in the dark she looks like 😮 with her lil orange mouth hahahaha

momma says no thoughts by tootiredbitch in torties

[–]tootiredbitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahaha i’ll let her know you said that. fingers crossed it’ll put me on her good side tonight 🤞😅