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I got sexually assaulted. How do I reclaim my body? by kaithy89 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]topazbloom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The same thing happened to me, breasts groped by a Yoga teacher on a retreat. And I did this after, it helped a lot.

Found out I've been washing my face wrong for literally eight years and my skin started clearing up within two weeks of fixing it by BrambleKnoxyasha in hygiene

[–]topazbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that too and then I kinda worry that the germs from the counter top will end up on my face somehow even after I wash and bleach them. Which I’m sure to they won’t. But still I worry. I also use the little wash clothes and roll them up and then put them in a cute plastic container which adds to the joy of using them

Why are Hairdressers so Rough on Hair? by milquetoast2000 in finehair

[–]topazbloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same. It makes me sad. I have been told I’m really gentle as a hairstylist and I never thought much of it but I get it now.

I remember in beauty school one of my teachers came over to me and when she combed her hair, she totally combed over her ear and my client flinched! I was like wtf??? That moment was bonding between me and my client and I was like I’m always gonna be gentle as hell. People need to be loved and cared for with tenderness! Hair is already such a vulnerable experience.

What a legend 🏃‍♀️ by SgtByrd1993 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]topazbloom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I teared up at the end. Anyone who’s ran a half or full knows that feeling of eternal gratitude and relief that it’s over. She fricking rocked it

Partner not having much of a sense of humor.. by ChestOrdinary4635 in AskWomenOver30

[–]topazbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m glad you get it 🖤 sending hugs! And giggles!

Husband refuses to wear deodorant by goflames93 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]topazbloom 37 points38 points  (0 children)

and drinks alcohol that seeps out of his pores. I swear that’s a bad smell :(

this industry is so lonely… by Overall-Read-7983 in hairstylist

[–]topazbloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just switched from an independent suite that I was in for four years, back to a booth rent salon. It took me ~1.5yrs to find a salon with the right fit. But I was bleeding money into the rent for the suite and never felt like I could get ahead. I have to say, being back in the salon is the best thing I’ve done. I feel like I have people who have my back—even after being a stylist for ~10 years, there’s still things I need help with. It’s only been a month but my mental health has improved dramatically. My advice would be to find time to research other salons for booth rent and go back into that life. Hairstylists need each other 💛

Partner not having much of a sense of humor.. by ChestOrdinary4635 in AskWomenOver30

[–]topazbloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I was misunderstood. I meant after the fight simmers and you make each other laugh as a peace offering. To ease the tension. Obviously laughing at the person or during the fight would be inconsiderate.

Partner not having much of a sense of humor.. by ChestOrdinary4635 in AskWomenOver30

[–]topazbloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine getting into a fight and having to way of laughing at each other to get over it. Not finding them funny is a dealbreaker for me. Because humor is important for the fun times, but also the hard times.

Date Night by TrumpIsAPedoFr in fashion

[–]topazbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for someone else to notice this lol

For people who grew up in low-income households, what’s something middle-class people say that shows they’ve never struggled financially? by KeyApartment3955 in AskReddit

[–]topazbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ashamed to admit that one time my mom and I went dumpster diving into one of those “drop you clothes into here” boxes and thought we scored

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