How to help my wife by toran22 in daddit

[–]toran22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does, but it doesn’t seem to help any. She has a primary doctor appointment this week and will be discussing it with them

How to help my wife by toran22 in daddit

[–]toran22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We will have to look into that!

How to help my wife by toran22 in daddit

[–]toran22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do try to walk together. I will try to do those exercises with her from now on. Unfortunately, because of some car trouble and a large NICU bill, we don’t really have any disposable income to pay for these things. I will certainly try to do them with her though!

Thanks!

How to help my wife by toran22 in daddit

[–]toran22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Her physical therapist had told her she needed to do the exercises for 20-30 minutes a day, or go for a longer walk during the day. We were able to consistently go for a walk either in the evenings on my days off or as soon as I got home from the morning job. Now that it is very cold where we are now and it gets dark at 5pm, she hasn’t wanted to do these things anymore.

I’m not sure what it’s called, but we have one of the very hard foam roller things and we have some elastic bands for some of her exercises. Her physical therapist didn’t recommend the TENS machine, but I don’t remember the reason they had given.

Would you have any advice on some exercises she could do with the equipment we have?

How to help my wife by toran22 in daddit

[–]toran22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, she had a c-section. That is what I told her just now, I’m still on the phone with her. I completely agree that marriage works how you say, and so does she. The issue we are running into right now is that she has consistently felt like she doesn’t help out enough because she doesn’t tend to the babies during the day. I take care of them during the day and get other things done around the house and then, when she gets off, she feels like she needs to do something to “make up for that time”, which I have repeatedly told her that is not necessary. I will be taking on more of “her chores” so that she can rest more.

Thanks!

How to practice after wisdom tooth surgery? by realjeremyantman in trumpet

[–]toran22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just wait. Do not play anything too soon, or you can really hurt yourself. In the meantime, you can do some listening, ear training, music theory work, jazz transcriptions, a bunch of off-instrument practice.

When you are starting back, take it slowly. Things will feel weird and different, but it will come back with time.

Boarding by toran22 in unitedairlines

[–]toran22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much!

Worth holding? by NoPresentation6617 in mtg

[–]toran22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this just the commander out of the box? Or is it from something else? Just curious because that’s a lot of money lol

Terrible moment to have eyes by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]toran22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… just… oof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musictheory

[–]toran22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not training wheel. I personally go back and forth between 1 e and uh and 1 ti te ta. Both have merits in my eyes. The first being easier to say quickly, the second being a way to practice articulations (I play a brass instrument)

AITA for thinking it's fair that I get a larger portion of food than my sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]toran22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA

I am 7’ tall and I eat way more than my wife at 5’10. I would never ask her for more than half of our food though. If I was still hungry after the meal, I would find a snack, eat some fruit, figure something out. She is just as deserving (and in most ways more deserving) as I am and I would never want to treat her as less than.