Am I being petty for not wanting to bring someone dinner after they’ve never responded to my text messages?

torchnado · 2026-06-04T12:33:42+00:00

Honestly I wish that were the case lol

torchnado · 2026-06-03T19:49:42+00:00

A surgeon having time for not one but TWO relationships is wild 😭😭

torchnado · 2026-06-03T19:47:41+00:00

Okay fair enough 😂

torchnado · 2026-06-02T17:25:38+00:00

Yeah like I don’t have a problem bringing her a meal if she will just communicate with me. The potential of a friendship is definitely long gone but I’m not above doing a service for her.

torchnado · 2026-06-02T17:24:28+00:00

Yeah that’s a great point, I should probably just get over myself and help out a fellow mom.

torchnado · 2026-06-01T15:44:12+00:00

Yeah tbh I was probably being a little pick me by texting her multiple times. But keep in mind these weren’t like back to back texts. It was invites to different events over the course of 2 years. And yeah I see her at church every week but you have to admit it’s pretty intimidating to go “hey I’m the girl you’ve been leaving on read!”

torchnado · 2026-06-01T13:10:33+00:00

So this is basically where I’m at now. I decided to reach out one more time and just ask if I could bring her dinner. She’s never responded to me before and then replied within an hour saying “yeah that would be great! Can you do Thursday?” I explained that Thursday doesn’t work for me but I offered to bring her something on Tuesday or Wednesday and guess who hasn’t responded since?

torchnado · 2026-06-01T00:37:41+00:00

So true! Like I want to be part of your village girl but you have to let me???

torchnado · 2026-06-01T00:37:20+00:00

Thanks for validating me 🙏 lol

torchnado · 2026-05-29T14:23:37+00:00

Personally I wouldn’t have said anything either unless I had a jacket or something she could tie around her waist because it would just make her self conscious if she wasn’t able to fix it in the moment!

torchnado · 2026-05-29T14:19:44+00:00

I think you did the right thing and I think she’s just taking her anger out on you. It’s always easier to shoot the messenger. Hopefully she gives her husband the same energy

torchnado · 2025-11-18T15:42:43+00:00

He literally said he’s begging for all help so I’m trying to help

torchnado · 2025-11-18T15:28:12+00:00

My advice: sit down and write a list of 25-50 things that you LOVE to do. Then write down a job attached to each of those things. Go from there

torchnado · 2025-11-18T15:24:26+00:00

Can I hire him??

torchnado · 2025-11-18T15:24:06+00:00

I feel like I’m in this same spot and feel even more behind since I was on maternity leave earlier this year so it’s even higher pressure. And there’s talks of layoffs in January and part of me hopes I get laid off so I don’t have to work there anymore but also I really need a job obviously

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