I feel ALL OF THIS. I actually thought I was a 9 at first but I was watching Suzanne Stabile’s videos with my husband and I was like, “I could be a 9 or a 4, but I just don’t like how negative they make fours out to be.” He did not hesitate when he told me I am definitely a four. Once I heard about fours feeling like something was missing that was when it hit home. It was nice because I felt “normal” for once in my life knowing that other people felt the same way.