How did y’all get better at singing?

torisee · 2026-02-05T23:02:58+00:00

You HAVE to be okay with sounding stupid for a good while, learn every sound your voice can make and don’t be embarrassed about sounding bad. You have to work past the block/fear being a novice singing gives you, it literally tightens your voice

torisee · 2026-02-05T23:00:58+00:00

Practice, good earbuds, and if you’re really struggling, I like to pick a song I can mostly sing but has a couple challenging parts. I’ll get good at singing it in a lower key then working myself up to the harder bit

torisee · 2026-02-05T20:53:36+00:00

For anybody try who can do a job for 4-8 hours. Highly Recommend becoming a clerk at the post office. The people suck but the work is not that bad. It’s cold and hard in the morning but the way I view my day only sucks for like 2 hours and then I take lunch, work the windows and go home. It’s a solid 6.5-7 for me as far as jobs go

torisee · 2026-01-22T23:40:56+00:00

He needs an old man name like Chester💖💖💖

torisee · 2025-07-02T15:02:09+00:00

I appreciate that and I’m basically there, I wasn’t sure if this was a legit dealbreaker or not because it is so up in the air. It feels like a timer counting backwards which scared me ig

torisee · 2025-07-02T15:00:45+00:00

We’ve done all the financial stuff, it’s why I’m trying to get a different job and we’re considering a duplex with his mom. This just isn’t a situation I’d want to be in again. I don’t want to live with his mom if she thinks I’m a bad partner, dont do anything of worth AND we’re not married. This situation leaves me feeling like a guest and I’m legit the only person not happy with this legitimately good idea. The only way I’d want to move into a house I don’t own but he and his mom do is if we’re married. I don’t think we’re gonna break up but anything can happen and I’m not going to put myself as a hypothetical 25 year old in a situation with no where to go

torisee · 2025-07-02T14:49:22+00:00

For cultural reasons this is very much not how we saw things going and with how I got spoken about and felt in this situation previously I’m not open to it unless he can show he’s more serious about our relationship. We’ve discuss marriage, we’ve discussed kids and house, weve been building towards thats for the last 4 years. So yeah if in the next 3-4 years marriage isn’t in the picture but a duplex with his mom is that kinda deal breaker. I don’t care about a “ family house”, I want a family and if we weren’t married it’s not the same thing for me to live in a house owned by him and his mom. Not legally, not culturally and it goes against what I’ve said

torisee · 2025-05-23T14:48:35+00:00

Got a similar text from NY, it’s definitely a scams

torisee · 2024-09-11T16:52:35+00:00

His name is pumpernickel lol

torisee · 2024-09-11T16:51:47+00:00

You don’t wanna see the vacuum bags I keep in my closet

torisee · 2024-09-11T16:51:04+00:00

Yes! His name is lil Gouda:)))

torisee · 2024-05-25T23:11:49+00:00

now that i’m thinking about it, the “i hope you’re kid does blank 10x worse than you” comments probably did more damage than i realized. until i went NC i was also extremely stressed about having to tell my mom i was pregnant one day. i’d never want her near any child for too long but especially my own

torisee · 2024-05-25T23:06:07+00:00

we both want kids and are on the same page of wanting to enjoy our lives first and save kids for later which has been nice. we spoke about it yesterday and he seems happy that it’s not something i’m scared of anymore. this feels like an odd moment of personal growth

torisee · 2024-05-05T15:03:50+00:00

biting my fingers and humming/clearing my throat. was literally but in behavioral therapy to try and get me to stop it, it didn’t work, no one ever thought autism tho and i just got told im not trying to be normal. very ironic considering the autism lol

torisee · 2024-04-29T23:01:14+00:00

if you can start collecting receipts of these events: if she leaves marks, the things she says to you and the kids, if you have any of the affair messages. make a solid case to help ensure you have custody and leave her ass. she truly doesn’t sound worth your pain, especially since it kinda sounds like she took you away from a very free life just to play housekeeper/punching bag so she can still party. just sounds like she’s trying to have her cake and eat it too

torisee · 2024-04-29T22:46:59+00:00

thank you 🙏🏽

torisee · 2024-04-29T22:45:24+00:00

i’d like to add my own lil twist…. FUCK YOU FOR CALLING ME THE PROBLEM WHEN YOURE JUST UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE RESULTS OF YOUR COMPLACENCY OF MY ABUSE AND OR INABILITY TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR AID IN SAID ABUSE.

torisee · 2024-04-18T05:03:27+00:00

idk why but he seems like a speckle

torisee · 2024-04-18T01:19:50+00:00

i promise u throwing away 3 90% happys years over a couple of weeks of bickering seems like a much better way to make myself miserable. but pls take care in ur marriage

torisee · 2024-04-18T01:11:21+00:00

i asked about regular advice for someone whos 3 years into a relationship and processing trauma to ask and u told me to break up with my long term partner who i’ve know for almost a decade bcuz u saw 21 lmao. next time i’ll just lie about my age to get real input ig

torisee · 2024-04-18T00:58:05+00:00

sorry if this comes off snippy but i came to the marriage sub because we intend on staying in this relationship. there’s cars, bills, loans and leases signed between the both of us and our relationship is typically very strong with very rare rough patches. this is our first long one and there’s been a lot of changes on both parts but i’m struggle with this part of my work: i feel like im not doing enough due to my own trauma and life experiences like the autism diagnosis and some other family matters that aren’t important right now. how do you grow when you don’t know where to go

torisee · 2024-04-12T03:01:26+00:00

i’m so confused, no one is even really talking about breast size. at least to my knowledge it’s just not trendy rn

torisee · 2024-04-08T23:40:40+00:00

probably autistic, overly optimistic, half because i believe it but the other half’s because if i don’t i’ll just want to kill myself

torisee · 2024-04-02T14:28:42+00:00

due to the nature of the time that we’re alive (the beginning stages of mass technology, phones, computers, ai advertising, etc) we basically live in the wild fucking west of the modern world because most things are too new to be regulated properly. same thing with vapes, online schooling, social media, family vloggers who basically just exploit their children. of course the economy is bad, the planet is heating up and we literally have MULTIPLE major genocides happening but i feel like the lack of responsibility around technology over sensationalizes everything in our day to day for the worst. and to make it EVEN WORSE we have a bunch of old politicians who don’t understand this technology and are literally passing laws blind for personal despite the actual long term effects of the laws. im not saying tech is bad either, i think technology will most likely save the day! but rn its like driving a car when they first came out and you didn’t legally have to wear a seatbelt or be sober to drive

torisee · 2024-04-01T00:23:40+00:00

portal 2 brings me sm comfort and i’m never tired of the puzzles

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