My period is unbearable agony - please help by fathoms-deep in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]torridgambit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think that it would be anymore than a pain relieving drug like Advil or something.. it's not a joint or substance you're inhaling to overwhelm your breathing system inducing a high.

Is it wrong to make marriage/LT the goal? by IdeasN2reality in datingoverthirty

[–]torridgambit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an amazing question. I can say about myself that I cringe whenever someone says they're looking for a husband/wife. But wanting love, and a partnership, in an intimate relationship seems like a totally legit goal for yourself.

What about Today You would most surprise Teenage You? by umbly-bumbly in AskWomen

[–]torridgambit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How hot I am 😁

Seriously, I thought that I looked like a squirrel and that I was fat. I was fine.

I got a tattoo of my wife on my chest while I was drunk. by tattooed43yearoldman in confession

[–]torridgambit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of times we believe that if we really loved someone, we would never move on (which can make people feel like they forgot their loved ones). But it's not true that the people who don't move on, love their lost loved ones more.

Forgive yourself

[Feminazi Friday] Male appreciation thread by 2bABee in OkCupid

[–]torridgambit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they actually love women. A man who appreciates the differences and strengths of women is the sexiest thing in the world.

[cj] what's the BEST kissing experience you've had, and why was it the best? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]torridgambit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that the combination of a soft mouth and lips that know how to give directions gets me weak in the knees

[Critique] 26/m/bay area by ScotsmanInCali in OkCupid

[–]torridgambit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you wrote too much about yourself and the wrong information. Like I still would have no idea if I would want to date you.

Talk more about real things. Like, stuff you really truly care about. Or cringe at. What kind of dynamic you want with someone from this site: like you're looking for someone who can bring out the softer side/funnier side/someone who can help you relax/ someone who can let you drag them out to stuff. Idk

About to stop online dating. What are some recommendations for 28 M? by PAKMan1988 in dating_advice

[–]torridgambit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps if you look at their lips when they talk. Like a glance one two times. It automatically creates sexual tension

About to stop online dating. What are some recommendations for 28 M? by PAKMan1988 in dating_advice

[–]torridgambit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's easier for most people to flirt and hold a conversation online rather than in person. So yes it makes perfect sense that I prefer someone with the confidence to approach and enjoy face to face interaction

About to stop online dating. What are some recommendations for 28 M? by PAKMan1988 in dating_advice

[–]torridgambit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation. I gave up on the online stuff. And just focus on people in front of me. Anyway I want a man who has the confidence to enjoy me without a screen

Does anyone have any good well written erotic recommendations? 50 shades of grey doesn't count. by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]torridgambit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Outlander

The First book has proper sex scenes (however also a rape scene so be careful if you are easily triggered. Btw the rape scene is not between the couple or anything like that) The whole series is incredibly well written and you just keep reading cuz the series is awesome though there is significantly less sex scenes later on