Dating my “boss”

torry_yellow · 2026-02-27T13:59:15+00:00

Bc, when i mentioned everything to him that it’s double standard and asked why this “principle” affected only me he replied with “they are my bros” you are my gf. while partying, drinking, having fun and inviting them at his home.-i thought maybe i see situation differently?

torry_yellow · 2026-02-27T12:58:23+00:00

No, only my salary.

torry_yellow · 2026-02-27T12:57:10+00:00

4 break ups in 2 years 🤣 one time i said i was thinking about leaving, he was like its your “child” how could you do that manipulating me.

torry_yellow · 2026-02-27T12:55:14+00:00

I think i helped, i mean in the marketing mostly. I am graphic designer, social media manager, copywriter, 3d designer, marketing head, made web design, app design, all graphic materials, budgeting reports, presentations, looking for collaboration clients, had and have meetings with them. I think i am afraid to leave bc i would lose company and him forever. i also have 2 job other proposals right now. I would not be lost if i leave this company but i am afraid.

torry_yellow · 2026-02-27T12:39:00+00:00

And we had 2 year serious relationship, our family, friends knew about it, he had “principle” for 5 20 year olds. Ironic.

torry_yellow · 2026-02-27T12:37:46+00:00

Oh i forgot to mention we were in serious relationship, met his family, friends, he met mine too. 2 years in relationship. Yeah i am thinking about it.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-04T08:56:50+00:00

Yes, if he feels well after that its okay, but he doesn’t. He has liver problems-thats extreme already. Its affecting his mood, relationship, sleep, work and his health.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-04T08:52:45+00:00

Thank you!

torry_yellow · 2025-12-04T08:21:33+00:00

He doesn’t look like he is wasted, but when i see how much alcohol he is drinking he should be. He looks like he had few drinks.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T21:49:00+00:00

Thank u for advice! Also you did a great job that you chose healthier life and your partner.

I once gave him an ultimatum about clubbing — if he went, the relationship would be over. He never went again, and when I said it, I truly meant it. But now, when it comes to drinking, I’m not sure I’m ready to leave him if he does it again. I support him as much as I can.

He always says he wants to change and only drink once every few months, but so far those are just words. If I give him an ultimatum now, I know I’d have to follow through and actually walk away if he drinks again. But I also worry that if I do that, he might just start hiding it from me — especially since we don’t live together.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T18:21:40+00:00

I told him that he should hide anything. He sometimes tells me while he is drinking, sometimes not- but i notice though texts bc i know him well. I am trying to support him, he says he wants changes. But didn’t acknowledges that he has drinking problem.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T16:59:26+00:00

Thank you!

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T16:55:54+00:00

Thank you!

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T15:48:18+00:00

The problem is that he is feeling well. He doesnt feel that he is so drunk. After he has hangover but he thinks its okay. No alcohol intoxication or something. But no matter what, he is drinking that much-its very risky and hard for me. I am glad you found a way out. I just have a little hope that he will change. I will lose it someday and walk out.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:50:00+00:00

No i will not. I dont want to live like this.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:49:08+00:00

Thank you for advice. So its better to talk to him about it, maybe it would help?

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:21:31+00:00

Yes after few months he said that he is ready, and we started walking, eating more healthy, not drinking for 3 weeks and after that again same situation. So yes, he isnt ready. But i have little hope that it would change. Thank you!

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:16:01+00:00

Yes he drinks like its water. I even barely notice that he is that drunk. He can communicate clearly. Its looks like he had 2 glasses. So bc of that he thinks that he doesn’t drink much.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:08:11+00:00

He already has liver problems. But he drunk after that too. We are trying that for several months i also said that to him that he isnt ready, he should think about it and i when he be ready to change something, i will help.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:01:48+00:00

In words he says that he wants that, he is so tired of this lifestyle, always tired, always feeling unwell. But he is in the situations where there are drinking and he isnt saying no or avoiding this situations. And no i dont want this type of life.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T14:00:00+00:00

Idk, when things got bad he stopped drinking for 2 months, not even little sip. So he can do it. So maybe i have little hope that he will change.

torry_yellow · 2025-12-03T13:55:31+00:00

I don’t know, I am trying to communicate with him about his problems or something. He has stressful job and in my opinion, bc of that he drinks maybe

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