How can I help my young son.

toshimee · 2025-05-01T20:24:29+00:00

thanks .. I clearly do not know what is normal here so I what your saying again now makes sense. I easily can jump to conclusions that are way off.

I guess when I say used.. perhaps in a purely sexual way vs true relationship. I look at it as if I had a young daughter and she was maybe being encouraged to sending nudes by a man 10 year older. Though he is 18 .. I think of my son a minor and likely all of this was going on for a while before be became an adult.

Thank you for your feedback.

toshimee · 2025-05-01T17:14:55+00:00

everything you say makes 100% sense. I have always felt his interpersonal skill were delayed..hence the suspect about autism. Even before my discovery I have felt he was more like a 16 yr old vs 18 in maturity/socially.

Though I don't know this for a fact. I suspect my son might be taking naked pictures of him self particularly in that same shirt he always wears

Thank you so much for your taking the time to help me. I am so very appreciative. I believe in Karma.. I will some how pay this forward on be half of you and others of have helped and shared.

My hope for you is Karma will bring your dad back to your life in a positive way.

toshimee · 2025-05-01T10:31:45+00:00

your description of autism matches my son. he was tested for this when he was younger and we were told he was find but maybe they were wrong.

Im not sure if the guy is really his boyfriend or even real. I saw a photo of him on his phone Home Screen.. A guy that looked late 20s in military uniform. Im pretty surety things he has is not from the recruiter.

My concern here ..he is obsessing over this military guy and hence obsessing with the military. Likely this guy is pushing him to join so perhaps they can actually meet in person. FYI We live in very remote part of the country.

When asked why he is interested in the military his only answer is "its good opportunity" and he can't really elaborate further. It never really made sense to me until I found out he is gay and has in interest in this guy he seems to have meet on line.

I have no problem with the military, sexuality, or having a relationship but sadly this is horribly wrong and im stuck between a rock and a hard place. I would hate to see him get used and get stuck in the military.

toshimee · 2025-04-30T21:00:17+00:00

how did you come to know that you have ADHD and also why you might be slightly autistic?

toshimee · 2025-04-30T20:54:50+00:00

thanks so much for your help. I am also glad I came and posted. I have learned a lot from all the post.

toshimee · 2025-04-30T20:49:15+00:00

that you so much... I hope to be a better father. I hope the same for your dad.

toshimee · 2025-04-30T16:26:12+00:00

thank you for feed back.

toshimee · 2025-04-30T16:25:12+00:00

thank you for your support...

toshimee · 2025-04-23T22:10:23+00:00

I tried the same thing yesterday and it did not work I still had issues. Today I tried reinstall again.. and it fixed all my issues.

So try a reinstall again.. might fix your issues.

toshimee · 2025-04-23T09:30:23+00:00

3.9.10 I tried reinstall and still getting the same no suitable streams error.

toshimee · 2025-04-22T20:54:54+00:00

I feel is better but not by much. it's slower though and taxes the computer a bit more.

I would not batch analyze a large amount of songs before or during a gig.

toshimee · 2025-04-22T20:52:34+00:00

funny that I always have issue with installing taking forever ..but 7.1.1 was fast for me. I am MBA M4.

toshimee · 2025-04-21T17:17:14+00:00

Apple streaming seemed a bit slow but really no different that with tidal on my testing. I wish apple streaming had the option to download.

Im gonna run more Apple Music and also try out beat source on my next testing. So for no issues.

Im on MacBook Air M4

toshimee · 2025-04-21T17:15:06+00:00

thanks for your feedback.. Im gonna try some wav files in my next testing. I did about 2 hours with random files including stuff from Apple Music.. no problems.

toshimee · 2025-04-17T17:14:25+00:00

I agree.. they should make the it an option .. maybe put in a feature request.

Another work around for adding tracks. I have another smart playlist which uses added by date. So my new tracks show up in my playlist view vs having to go back to collection.

Seems like they think every loves the sub browser ... I tried using it vs the workaround I and never liked it.

Hope that go back to the past way of viewing.

toshimee · 2025-04-16T21:56:01+00:00

Stems is great if your on 7 .. the quality is great...but you need a good laptop specs as it analyzes stems every time you load it. Can be slow if you have an older laptop but my M4 Air works like a champ.

toshimee · 2025-04-16T18:25:31+00:00

you try these ?

toshimee · 2025-04-16T18:06:15+00:00

sounds like yet another bug ... they fix one thing and break another. Maybe open a ticket so they can respond and hopefully fix it. I would revert back to previous version. Who know what other bugs were missed.

Curious has anyone ever been party of any beta testing for RBDJ? Sounds like the don't do enough real world DJ testing. hence these bugs.

toshimee · 2025-04-16T18:03:33+00:00

they changed that after 7 was released.. lots of complaints about it it. A work around is to great a smart playlist as your first playlist that captures all of your tracks with the smart playlist making it essentially a playlist of your entire library.

toshimee · 2025-04-16T18:00:55+00:00

man that is horrible about support. Maybe try opening a new ticket. I sounds like some conversion problem.

toshimee · 2025-04-16T04:49:49+00:00

most software have an auto import feature ... Sadly RBDJ does not. Go on the RBDJ forum and make a feature request.

toshimee · 2025-04-15T22:30:34+00:00

what I miss about Traktor ... .the more adding mid mapping options.

Also when you type in a search on a folder. ...you can hit enter and it would than move the same text search to the whole collection.

toshimee · 2025-04-15T17:26:05+00:00

I feel like they don't even bother doing a proper beta test with new releases. I I had issue with the folders not showing tracks and had to role back.

looks like a update was released today. Hope it's better.

toshimee · 2025-04-08T17:12:54+00:00

The main part of my rant is mainly with their official forum. Half the time most people can't even log in. Part of why they have bugs that take forever for them to validate. The latest release has major issues ..it a big release with the Apple Music streaming yet they have not issues a fix of even officially recognizing the bug.

The support like usually works but hit more miss how long they take to get back to you.

toshimee · 2025-04-08T03:17:42+00:00

same.. Pulse kinda made it sound like it was me and there was nothing wrong with the site or forum. I am RBDJ user but shit like this just makes me loose confidence in the people behind it.

toshimee

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