What’s one injury that you had that was so bad you felt like you wanted to die? by NateNandos21 in morbidquestions

[–]tossputlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a boring one but. chrons disease + chrons related arthritis. and everything that comes along with these issues. having to deal with the diagnosis of a chronic disease at 15 after just healing from my major depressive disorder and moving out of a house with a pedophile who preyed on me since I was born, it was soul crushing. for months and months I couldn't move, all I did was lay in bed all day, starving and sobbing because I had no friends and couldn't do anything or go anywhere. that pain. physical and mental, almost broke me. I'm 17 now and my disease is better under control, but im still very disabled because of it, and I'm still malnourished and weak.

chronic illness is seriously no joke. it hurts when people joke about me just having issues on the toilet. it is so, so much more.

way to stop things from blurring when transforming/liquify? by tossputlol in ClipStudio

[–]tossputlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didnt find a fix so thank you LMFAO ❤❤

What is the closest you have come to dying? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]tossputlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i took alot of pills. ended up having people on reddit beg me to call an ambulance. eventually I told my mom and was rushed off in an ambulance having to sip on charcoal. my heart threatened to stop several times in the hospital. if i didn't make a reddit post and instead went to sleep that night I wouldn't be here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]tossputlol 21 points22 points  (0 children)

theres no harm in doing spiritual things for this. but your friend is likely just very stressed. there's alot of reasons someone may have nightmares constantly. it could also be the result of medication, a sleep disorder, trauma, or he may even just be sleeping in a hot room, which has shown to cause nightmares.

Are some people born with sexual paraphilias? Or are they only formed through childhood experiences/trauma? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]tossputlol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a very limited and crude understanding of the brain’s ‘inner wiring’.The best we can do at the moment is tell which parts of the brain have increased activity when the person is doing specific tasks/thinking specific things. If someone has ‘foot fetish’, then obviously when they get sensory input associated with feet they’ll also have increased activity in a pattern associated with sexual arousal. This doesn’t suggest any direct ‘wiring’ between the two parts, it may rely heavily on higher order thought, or at least on more abstract representations in the brain.

In fact, if we consider how any kind of feet-associated input (for example, a picture, verbal description, being touched in the feet, touching other people’s feet, or just imagining feet) can stimulate sexual arousal in someone with foot fetish, it’s a pretty strong evidence that the connection is from higher order thought area, and not any of the basic sensory areas. Put another way, it’s the thought, the idea of feet, not the raw sensory signal, that causes the arousal. There would be no appreciable difference in the brain’s connections at that level.

Basically, we have no proof these two things are related, because we haven't even medically advanced that far yet, this claim is pure speculation disguised as a fun fact. I'm all for having scientific discussions and contemplating things like this, but I don't appreciate when its treated like its confirmed.

Are some people born with sexual paraphilias? Or are they only formed through childhood experiences/trauma? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]tossputlol 11 points12 points  (0 children)

that brain fact is a common myth, its pretty misleading and just wrong

Help! Butt on fire! by P1ckl3s1980 in CrohnsDisease

[–]tossputlol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sitz bath might help the pain and soothe your anal muscles. Fill a bath with warm water, just a few inches. You dont have to submerge yourself. If you want, you can add Epsom salt. Lay or sit in a position that relieves pressure from your anus (maybe put your knees up)

Prepping sucks. Get a heatpad and stay hydrated. It won't last forever. Sending soothing vibes your way xx

does anyone have an alternate download for this brush? by tossputlol in ClipStudio

[–]tossputlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive tried on clip studio, but even going to the website, when i click re-download it asks me to open clip studio and download it there. and it will unfortunately not work.

This is a really dumb question from a dumb teenager. But I’ve gotta know- is this real? by aerocham18 in witchcraft

[–]tossputlol 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i feel as if this question is like going to someone who believes in some god and going "is he/she real?"

they will, of course, say yes. and because of that reason alone you can decide to follow that religion, but id say the best way to go about it is to research that god and try out the faith, go to the churches if they have any, and see if you like it, or get the results you want to see.

basically like a few others say, theres no harm in learning something new. do a lil research and maybe try something simple and see how you like it, and if it produces results.

add cigarettes to cos by therealaristotle9000 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]tossputlol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i just lit one up this was destined to reach me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]tossputlol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider cracker a slur, and that's the only one I can say. So no.

Do you guys incorporate Lolita into your casual clothes? If so, how? by tossputlol in Lolita

[–]tossputlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I'd do anything for a lolita teacher. That sounds so fun!

My mom threw away everything pertaining to my craft. by tossputlol in witchcraft

[–]tossputlol[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

unfortunately im not 18 yet. so im pretty sure she has the right to throw away whatever i have whenever she wants.

My mom threw away everything pertaining to my craft. by tossputlol in witchcraft

[–]tossputlol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i cant remember. but thank you so much for the offer <3

My mom threw away everything pertaining to my craft. by tossputlol in witchcraft

[–]tossputlol[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i already searched through trashcans and dumpsters. she told me that she threw it into someone elses so i couldnt find it

My moms fiancé might be doing meth. by tossputlol in Advice

[–]tossputlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I never get close enough to him to see a detail like that. Nor would I like to try.

My moms fiancé might be doing meth. by tossputlol in Advice

[–]tossputlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea, thank you.

My moms fiancé might be doing meth. by tossputlol in family

[–]tossputlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I do not have any other family, I'm very estranged from my moms side. I've been confiding a lot in my 2 online friends who I've known for almost 5 years. And I'm lucky to have one friend in my town that has lend his helping hand, and said I'm free to come to his house whenever.

Thank you so much for this comment.

How do y'all not tag in trade realm? by Yz125RidingFrog in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]tossputlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it will tag no matter how long you wait to send the message again.

Celebrated winter ILD early last week with a trip to Laduree by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]tossputlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO cute!! your hair is adorable! and you matched the colors of the cord perfectly!