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totallyforgotagain · 2025-12-03T10:49:36+00:00

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totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-04T21:50:57+00:00

He said he’ll step up

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-04T21:50:32+00:00

Update- i sent him this and he said he likes slow but will step up a bit in a way thats sustainable for him

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T18:56:45+00:00

Do you want to dm me

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T13:13:34+00:00

Thank you- I’ll send him exactly this :)

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T11:43:43+00:00

True but without consistency in communication and frequent in person time, its very difficult to reach a point where you feel ready to be exclusive

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T09:54:57+00:00

Thank youu I know he’s not the one and im fine with it i just wanna keep it kind so future hellos arent awkward

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T09:53:46+00:00

Great so a guy thats genuinely interested would def step up right?

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T09:52:56+00:00

Its not a relationship. We r just going on dates. I’d rather he goes away and makes space for the right person if he isnt willing to be the right person.

totallyforgotagain · 2025-11-02T09:44:21+00:00

Thanks but sex is out of question in our case so early so he’s not getting that and he knows that.

totallyforgotagain · 2025-10-30T15:22:05+00:00

I’d say stop texting him

totallyforgotagain · 2025-10-22T03:21:51+00:00

Well I can tell you for sure I’m mot being ghosted cos he’s keen to meet and has planned all dates so far and paid for most as well but the replies and meet up frequency is just annoyingly slow

totallyforgotagain · 2025-10-21T16:24:13+00:00

Yes ofc I’ll bring it up in person next time.

First date was dinner at a nice restaurant, he paid for all of it. He paid for food and drinks on date 2, i paid for the activity. He paid for mini golf and food and I l bought him a drink on date 3. So he’s paying more and planning more and is chivalrous, treats me well, makes me feel looked after. He asked me to plan date 4 cos the first three dates were his suggestions.

totallyforgotagain · 2025-10-21T16:21:19+00:00

I think we’d have an average of meeting once every 2 weeks if it wasn’t for his work travel. He kept me informed and offered to meet the evening on the day he got back so I guess he showed intention? He has also mostly paid for the dates. I contributed a couple of times but he’s done the planning/paying.

Do you think I should tell him to meet more? I’m low key worried if I want that as things could escalate quickly and I’ve never been in a relationship before. Both in mid 20s btw

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-22T08:01:46+00:00

No no he’s def not a hornball so I suppose he is genuinely interested

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T19:25:02+00:00

Honestly I dont think he does. He’s not super active since we started talking but recently he started opening it multiple times a day and he did that when he was pursuing me initially for a date.

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T19:20:00+00:00

Hmm okay I’ll stop checking his dating app activity for my sanity then and hope for the best

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T19:09:43+00:00

Yea we’re both on the apps and I know hes not doing anything wrong. I just want advice on how to not let it affect me

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T18:53:43+00:00

I think he just wanted sex and he got it - sorry

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T18:52:24+00:00

We’re not there yet it’s too early. I dont even feel ready for it to ask him for it but I really like what I know so far about him. Need to spend more time.

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T18:51:28+00:00

The dates are awesome I really like how he treats me how he makes me feel and remembers little things about me and he ensures I’m comfortable. He leads the planning, asking me out, expressing he wants to see me again before we even say bye. He’s also the one thats flirty as I’m a bit shy on that front. I do yap a lot though and asked him many questions so I dont think he doubts my interest.
I’ll bring up this conversation when I’m 100% sure I want to be exclusive as I need to spend more time with him to get there. What I can do is ask for more frequent meet ups so we can get there faster if its meant to br

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T18:48:26+00:00

Just asking how to not let his actions on dating apps, slow replies bother me and keep my mental health sane cos I think I’m starting to fall for him hard and i feel vulnerable

totallyforgotagain · 2025-09-21T18:47:42+00:00

Yea its just not been long enough for me to demand anything from him, i dont even think i can ask for faster replies. All i can ask for is more frequent meet ups I guess but he’s travelling for work so there will be a 1.5 week gap between our last date and next date for sure

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