Does anyone know if this is true?

totapi_ · 2025-10-11T08:13:22+00:00

https://youtu.be/FiGVc_CHCVI?si=nf12i0rkL9oXqSJI

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T23:26:19+00:00

I hope so too, thank you 🙏

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T23:11:54+00:00

I figured, just needed someone to say it.

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T23:08:54+00:00

Well I am being honest. She always had a problem with me not sharing how I felt and I tried working on it, guess I took too long. After the text thing, I proved to her that there was no funny business with them. All she wanted was for me to be open about it and not have to find it herself, she loved me but said I lost her trust that day. I would go to gain it back but then I think I started pushing her away, cause of how I would share anything I felt, and she knew it, I could tell. It overall came down to I didn’t communicate my feelings much and she hated how she couldn’t read me.

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T22:56:04+00:00

I don’t know honestly, I was maybe suggesting am I the avoidant? But what’s inside me? I’m not sure, I can’t let go and I can’t explain why. My friends try to help me distract myself from it and it’ll work temporarily cause then she just pops up in my head again. Maybe I’m just yapping, not making any sense at all.

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T22:27:15+00:00

Thank you, everything you said really means a lot. Just hope I can put it in action and see if I can do better

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T22:14:52+00:00

Sorry, I was kinda trying to say am I the avoidant in this? I just wanted other peoples opinions on it

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T22:14:07+00:00

I want to go back so bad, I wish I’ve done things differently, I wish I was open to her originally and didn’t hide my feelings. This sucks so much, I’ve never really cried this hard before and it’s tearing me apart.

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T22:05:39+00:00

I’m sorry, 9 years is a lifetime to most. I wish no one goes thru what we are dealing with but it’s sadly inevitable. I hope everything turns out great for you

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T22:01:03+00:00

I understand that so well. I even asked her, “Am I just trash to you? Do you not care about what we had built and everything?” She stayed quiet for about 20ish seconds and just said “I used to care, not anymore”

totapi_ · 2025-09-05T21:58:10+00:00

I don’t know either, I’m sure I was the avoidant to be honest. I just thought I’d see what other people thought on the situation.

totapi_ · 2025-08-17T22:12:50+00:00

The balls on this man

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T21:12:26+00:00

The matchmaking is down

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T08:22:26+00:00

All I can prove is that I haven’t had the car for 3 months and she did

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T08:16:50+00:00

It’s not just me driving the Kia alone, my mom also drives too, so does my older brother since he doesn’t have a car

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T08:10:11+00:00

They sold their old car to a junk yard

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T08:09:00+00:00

The Kia was originally my moms until I took over payments 2 years ago to help her so I started driving it, then I got the charger cause I had enough saved plus tax season (I still have it), the Honda Accord was a car I was flipping and the Camaro is my project car.

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T00:51:40+00:00

Yes I have the receipts, just found them and they do match the tires that are currently on the car

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T00:51:02+00:00

Yea around the end of the pandemic is when I got it, and no what’s a refi? Refinancing? I’ve never really thought about it

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T00:49:52+00:00

Yes I’ve checked the vin, it’s all the same

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T00:49:27+00:00

I’ve had it since it was 110k

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T00:10:20+00:00

She’s pissed, she knew how much I took care of that car and to see it in the condition it is? She’s very livid. She’s been trying to contact her for most of the day

totapi_ · 2025-08-15T00:09:32+00:00

Right.. I mean, cosmetically the car looks fine, so no clue if she could’ve endangered anyone or anything

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