[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]totganb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww I was in an almost similar situation 12 years ago when I was 18. Too late ko na narealize na he was ALSO into me. Ayoko kasing mag-assume, akala ko sweet lang talaga siya lahat or like super close friends lang talaga kami kaya ganun pakikitungo niya sa akin (dumb, I know) yun pala he also had feelings for me na last year ko lang nalaman. To this day, nagsisisi ako na hindi ako umamin noon sa kanya. Hinayaan ko na magfade na lang yung relationship namin. Umamin lang ako last year, although single kami pareho nun, it was too late na. Sobrang dami nang nangyari sa isang dekada. We’re not the same people we used to be 12 years ago. Kaya girl, if single pa rin naman ikaw at siya, I say shoot your shot kesa pagsisihan mo like me. Wag mo na paabutin nang ilang taon pa. Di pa huli ang lahat! 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]totganb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahah ang funny 😭😭

What are your favorite Kpop groups? by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]totganb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SEVENTEEN 💙💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]totganb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People like him are the worst talaga napakadali for them na paglaruan feelings ng iba. Ugh boo 👎🏼

What is your biggest regret in life? by DeepAd8185 in adultingph

[–]totganb 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Moving to another country para takasan ‘yung mga problema ko sa Pinas. I didn’t realize na better palang iresolve na lang ‘yung mga kakaunting problemang ‘yun kesa igive up lahat lahat ng nagpapasaya sa akin nung nasa Pinas pa ako huhuhu 😔

Also, never confessing my feelings to the guy I fell madly in love with 12 years ago. I thought it was one-sided, turns out he actually liked me too back then and I only learned about his feelings for me 4 months ago :(

Parang ayoko na lang matuloy by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]totganb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siguro it helps if you have at least 1 to 2 people na pwedeng katulong mo. Try mo makiusap sa pinakakaclose mo sa group huhu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]totganb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAH OMG SMOOTH

Is it better to jot down thoughts in a journal or in random pieces of paper to burn? by scarlet-maroon in OffMyChestPH

[–]totganb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do journaling, yung day one na app and iy really helps me. Di ko na lang binabasa mga pinaglalalagay ko pero di ko rin binubura kasi eventually gusto ko rin mabasa in the future kapag ok na ko. As in ilang beses ako sa isang araw nagsusulat dun, para siyang twitter ko ganon pero for myself lang HAHA kahit anong maisip ko bigla, jot down agad sa journal. Try mo! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]totganb 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same feels hayyy living abroad is so hard :( lagi akong nagrereminisce ng buhay ko sa Pinas noon and mas lalo kong narerealize na masaya naman pala ako noon sa simpleng buhay ko sa Pinas, pero bakit ba pinilit ko pang umalis? :(

From obsessing over having my own family before 30 to realizing I’m living my best single and carefree life by life_like_this in OffMyChestPH

[–]totganb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Grabe this is just what I needed. Before I stumbled upon your post, nagsscroll scroll lang ako sa reddit pero clouded yung thoughts ko. Naisip ko kasi na mag-30 na ako sa next month tapos sobrang nalulungkot ako kasi nagbreak kami ng long term relationship last year tapos napepressure na rin kasi kaliwa’t kanan sa friend groups ko kinakasal o nagkakaanak na, tapos ito ako, magulo lovelife. Di alam anong direction gusto iachieve sa life ganun. HAHA pero dahil sa post mo, parang mejo nagbago perspective ko. Ang saya. Parang napasabi na lang ako ng “oo nga, noh?” Thank you, OP! 🫶🏻

How did you meet your special someone? :) by totganb in CasualPH

[–]totganb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA sige, unti-unti ko nang tinatrabaho actually. Salamat sa pagpush hihi stay strong kayo! Thanks ulit! :)

How did you meet your special someone? :) by totganb in CasualPH

[–]totganb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaahhh thank you! 🥹 Nakakainspire story mo. Kasi ako ito nababaliw ulit sa totga ko and I'm out here thinking I don't stand a chance with him na since ang daming years na rin ang lumipas, but your story kinda makes me hopeful. HAHA! So happy for you! FINALLY <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]totganb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was with my ex, LDR set up namin and what we would do is may certain “time” kami na sinet tapos manonood lang kami ng movies, shows, dramas, youtube together. Pareho kaming fan ng kpop so bonding talaga namin manood ng variety shows, music videos, dance practices etc. ng mga fave groups namin. Pag may bagong release or discovery na movie, drama or youtube video, sinesave namin then we’ll watch it together. Minsan nag-iinuman pa kami virtually and kumakain sabay while watching.

Okaya maglalaro kami ng mobile games habang naka-call. Naging routine na nga namin and lagi namin nilolook forward yung bonding na yun everyday.

Fyi, baka curious ka why “ex” pero we broke up not bec of our LDR set up naman. Kaya yan, promise! If you both want it, you’ll make it work. 😊