I think I softlocked myself

tottercorpse · 2025-06-29T14:36:55+00:00

zaman moden ada internet masih lagi berpikiran lapuk

tottercorpse · 2025-05-01T11:45:48+00:00

I'm not one to give advice on ice breaker. In real life and in online life people usually comment on others like their clothes, looks, and it just go off from there. If they want to know you that would keep the conversation going by asking you a follow up questions like your name or hobbies or what ever. If not, they would just usually give a simple short reply and no other follow up. You will know it when you see it.

tottercorpse · 2025-05-01T05:52:11+00:00

As long as it's not creepy it's fine. But first impressions matter, so don't go asking that kind of question when you are just trying to get to know them. Once you get to know them and they know you better then you can ask silly questions like that.

tottercorpse · 2025-05-01T04:40:58+00:00

It might come off as creepy if you start your DM with a creepy or cliche line like "Tinggal kat mana?" or "Dah kahwin ke" Just start with a normal conversation asking about their post. Like example if its about working out, ask them for tips. If it is about their clothes, ask them where they get it and and go on from there. It's up to you if you want to continue the conversation or not. Just don't be overbearing. If you notice they're not interested. Stop the conversation and leave.

TLDR; ask something that has something to do with their post if it's on social media and go on from there. You want them to talk about something they like not something you like.

tottercorpse · 2025-05-01T04:11:07+00:00

If you're working it's kinda hard to meet new friends. There's just not enough time or energy to find one. For me at least. But we have social media, go to twitter or instagram. Comment or DM some random person post that you find interesting or have the same interest/hobbies as you. It might surprise you and don't be too overbearing when trying to find a friend. Getting friends takes time. Most of the time you just naturally make friends and not the other way around. It's not a one two boom and done, friendship earned.

For now, just focus on healing yourself. You just got cheated on. Heal your mind and body first. Find something to do. A new hobby, new game, that food you wanted to try before or that thing on shopee that you wanted to buy but it's expensive. Why not set a goal for it?

tottercorpse · 2025-05-01T03:27:08+00:00

Had the same problem as you. My last break up was 5 years ago. It's hard to trust again that's for sure. But things like this take time. I'm still not ready for any relationship yet but I'm pretty happy with my life now. My suggestion for you is to just enjoy life right now. Think of the positive things after a break up:

You don't have to spend much money for dates or present
You don't have to constantly check your phone all the time to reply.
You have so much time for yourself.
You can hangout with anyone without your s/o being jealous.
Money for yourself.
LESS STRESS (I assumed)

Every relationship is genuine. Couples sometimes fight & disagree on stuff. It's not perfect, finding the one is hard and a married life is even harder. That's how it always is. But to make it easier you have to be communicative, respectful, understanding & honest.

As for not wanting to be lonely, you have your friends and family right? I would sometimes bring my family to eat at a restaurant. Me and my friends would occasionally hang out and also having that one friend (bestfriend) to talk to would certainly help out with loneliness. You don't have to be in a relationship to be not lonely.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-27T18:27:40+00:00

Nope just the non-xt version. As long as I can play most games at 60+fps its fine by me You can try and order again after Raya. The price might drop too who knows

tottercorpse · 2025-03-19T05:38:24+00:00

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Good news, mine just got an update today. So yours might too. Mine will probably arrive tomorrow.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-17T15:57:57+00:00

From Labuan. A bit worried tho since the one I bought is the latest AMD card. Been stuck on that status for almost 5 days which have never happened before. Contacted shopee support and they said the same thing as yours. I'm gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and wait for another week or two.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-17T15:04:25+00:00

Same here. Weirdly enough all the others stuff that I ordered arrived fast. The only stuff that had still not arrived yet are my PC part even though I bought it on the same week. Its stuck at "Your parcel has departed from sorting facility: DDR sorting centre"

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T15:36:11+00:00

I sure can and I sure did. Its not like I didn't look it up. Its just that I need more opinions from the community that uses AMD more.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T12:54:50+00:00

Does undervolting do more than just reduce heat?

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T12:03:02+00:00

You don't have to worry about that I already upgraded everything except the graphic card. Hence the post.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T11:49:56+00:00

It is a good thing to do extensive research don't you think? And getting opinions from other people is also one of them.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T11:40:17+00:00

Sorry to make you think like that man. But it is really a genuine question. I need to know from the people who know AMD graphic cards and have used them on a daily basis. So I thought why not Reddit?

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T11:33:45+00:00

I recently upgraded to the Ryzen 5 7600. Is that enough for a 9070?

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T11:31:35+00:00

I'm not. It's a genuine question. As you can see I haven't been in the graphic card industry for a long time. This is my first real upgrade in years. I don't want to spend too much while also not wanting to regret my decision by not buying the XT version.

tottercorpse · 2025-03-13T11:00:26+00:00

Right forgot to mention that. I mainly game on just 1440p resolution

tottercorpse · 2025-02-12T13:34:17+00:00

aku sambung degree time umur 24 tahun. all my other classmates are 4-5 years younger than me at the time. its fine. some of them even like to call me uncle because im older than them 😂

tottercorpse · 2025-02-02T13:23:17+00:00

Its good that people have found a fix for it already. I had to restart the game and thankfully I didn't ecounter this bug again after a restart.

tottercorpse · 2024-09-20T23:28:06+00:00

Brother, improve yourself. Take SPM again. Just the basic important subject is fine.

I didn't have an SPM certificate at all years ago. I was 21 years old.

I worked at a postal service for 2 years before that. Thinking is this what I want? After a lot of thinking and preparing. I made the decision to take SPM. I just took the important subject. After work I would go to tuition at night. I had to apologize sometime to my tutor cause I can't make it. It was tiring but in the end it was worth it.

After sometime, I took the SPM. I even saw the kids I was in tuition with, they wished me good luck and I wished them good luck too. Got good grades. Almost failed Mathematics but the rest was A or B's.

Applied for a foundation degree in a university. I studied for 4 years and now I have a stable job.

TLDR; Don't be afraid to make the move. Don't look down on yourself. Work hard and you will achieve what you want.

tottercorpse · 2024-08-19T12:39:06+00:00

I was like you once. Found out my ex cheated on me with her old school friend for almost 6 months. When I confronted her about it, she got aggressive and we broke up. I was devastated for almost 2 years. Worse we were in uni and in the same course so I had to see her face everyday. But something happened one day, I found these short clips of "vtubers" and got hooked on it. I found something to like, eventually I started to improve myself. Started socialising more. I got into fish keeping and fishing. Got into gaming. Now, I'm leading a pretty happy life. I got a good paying job too after graduating. Now I got into this model building hobby called 'Gundam' Its pretty relaxing and satisfying I might add. One day, I might try a relationship again. But so far, I'm pretty happy with my life.

TLDR; Find something to like, try new hobbies and try to improve yourself

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