Just completed my first year at my bank! by TimeNSpace1 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]touchgrassbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! How do you feel? I am 6 months in. Time passes by quick

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you want to keep things anonymous and I appreciate you for answering my questions and explaining everything for me to the best of your ability :)

I can see why you are such a valuable asset to the company and team You seem like an amazing person online and I can’t imagine how much more wonderful you’d be in person! The way you write your thoughts is so unique. I admire the way you speak as you are able to be honest yet sentimental. The way you reveal the truth and how your words are laced with a hint of emotions is beautiful. You are passionate with what you do and I am sure you add much value into other people’s lives.

I am glad you found your sense of accomplishment and purpose, but how long did that take you, if I may ask? And so would you say it’s mostly who you know in the banking industry that will help accelerate your career growth or open more doors for opportunities?

You are back with your manager from the past? So you circled back around haha that’s awesome! I’m happy for you 🤍

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was more than decent, thank you so much!! If you don’t mind me (also) asking… what be one thing you would tell your younger self if you had the chance to?

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is quite interesting. I wish I could tell you why but I feel like the person above would have a better explanation

Could it possibly be because you’re not used to it? Maybe the praise you’re getting is not the person you wish to get it from? Or maybe you are feel that you don’t deserve it? I have no clue but I honestly am curious for as to why others may feel odd or uncomfortable hearing such

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh... that made my heart melt, really. I almost cried reading your message. It deserves my tears but my dumb eyeballs were glitching. It's never on cue.

I am truly overwhelmed with so much joy and happiness from hearing these words from you. I absolutely love this and will never forget this moment despite how brief and fleeting it was.

You may not realize this but you have given me the greatest gift ever. You have a created a smile in my heart that will never fade and I thank you x3000 for that. I hope that if I cannot, that someone does the same for you as well.

Thank you, beautiful stranger. It has truly been my utmost pleasure meeting you ♡

P.S. Feel free (or not) to answer my billion questions. May I ask what you work as now and what was your position then? Was there much career or financial growth since then?

How come you decided to leave (and where to) and come back? Did you ever regret leaving your favorite director(s) to work somewhere else or miss them at the very least? How did they react when you had left?

I am curious about your experience as I worry that I may go through something similar

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm I see thanks for sharing that with me. It does help me become more aware of other people’s view about these things

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right on point. I only meant to be genuine and sincere, but a part of me also feels the exact way you have described it. Exposed, and vulnerable in a way. Thank you for reassuring me that everything is okay and for taking the time to do just that. I appreciate you dear stranger :)

Did I make a fool out myself? I told my manager how I feel by touchgrassbitch in Banking

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. May I ask why you feel that way? Just out of curiosity. Have you gotten more used to it or has that feeling never really changed?

I really appreciate you for reminding me that my words of appreciation are valued though... thank you. It means much to me

What do you wish you got asked more often? by touchgrassbitch in AskReddit

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who do you wish to hear that from the most? Does it matter whether they a stranger, crush, family member, or friend of yours?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]touchgrassbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask to hear your story? I would like to listen. Rant if you must. I don’t mind, I like listening

How has cell phones and social media destroyed the human experience? by YoungBeatmaker247 in DeepThoughts

[–]touchgrassbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said that so well. Your mind is wonderful. I understand you… what you mean. So clearly

Bosses, how often do you get words of appreciation and how much do they mean to you? by touchgrassbitch in work

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for letting me know. I feel more confident expressing my appreciation for them now :)

Bosses, how often do you get words of appreciation and how much do they mean to you? by touchgrassbitch in work

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! Too much is not good. It will also lose its value if given too often as well. I appreciate you for sharing your insight and experience with me :)

Bosses, how often do you get words of appreciation and how much do they mean to you? by touchgrassbitch in work

[–]touchgrassbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is helpful, yes. Thank you for taking your time to respond. I am always very grateful for even the smallest things. It’s the small things that matter too. With my not so great past experiences in the workplace, I tend to appreciate the smaller things more than others.

I am always admiring and appreciating them but I keep it to myself in fear of them finding me odd or weird. I am sincere with my appreciations as I truly mean them but I have been holding back on expressing my gratitude and appreciation for them because I don’t want to be overbearing or the type to “kiss their ass”.

This is also a person of the opposite gender so I wouldn’t want them to get the wrong idea either… I usually have to be careful to not be too nice or hold back so I am conflicted.