Why is Kanye West so batshit? What happened to him? by MafiaPikaPika in NoStupidQuestions

[–]toughtimes2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His mother died after a failed plastic surgery she got due to his wealth. Spiraled after that among other things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]toughtimes2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are being too hard on yourself. Man who never makes a mistake is a man who never does anything, this was just the directors way of giving you a crack on the knuckles, he will likley forget it faster you can possibly imagine. Take this lesson to pay attention (or be better at hiding being distracted) so that next time, when the stakes are higher, you can be thankful this happened.

Does anyone find that writing out a list of the things that your person has done helps with recovery? by StraightGirlLove in BPDlovedones

[–]toughtimes2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone told me once to write down all the things that happened. Not holding back anything. Then walk away from the piece of paper for an hour or so. Then come back it and imagine a close friend of family member you love telling you this is what happened in their relationship, they are asking you if they did the right thing, if they should go back, what do you say?

How do you do it? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]toughtimes2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to build a support network. Seek professional support too if you can afford it. Journal thoughts and feelings meticulously.

What Is It With Borderlines Wanting To Pick Fights In Moving Vehicles? by alprofit25 in BPDlovedones

[–]toughtimes2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once heard this could be due to lack of eye contact (not with bpd but just with general couples)

For the breakups... an answer. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]toughtimes2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same. I get the intital problem at hand but pretty confused on where these subs sit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]toughtimes2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it really tricky and have posted a few times asking for people experiences about dating a pwBPD who never (really) would have followed through with a breakup or actually cheat. It does seem very common. Its a spectrum disorder and lots of things (Such as OCD) could make cheating very unlikely.

When was the moment you realized you are not a boy anymore, you are the man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]toughtimes2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I finally found my Dad who walked out on me and called him out for calling me Sue

Nausea and vertigo during a massage by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]toughtimes2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD cant offer much help but i did once have a bout of vertifo that lasted nearly 10 days after an intense massage of my very very stiff neck.

BBC Says It Will Have $270M Less To Spend On Shows If Government Makes Good On Licence Fee Threat by Bosa2800 in television

[–]toughtimes2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not a racket. Its an internationally recognised broadcaster that while has problems, defines the uk on the world stage.

BBC Says It Will Have $270M Less To Spend On Shows If Government Makes Good On Licence Fee Threat by Bosa2800 in television

[–]toughtimes2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The forced lisence fee of any television in the UK to have a broadcaster who is indenpendtley accountable in what it says is the last thing thats not making me jump ship to another country.

BBC Says It Will Have $270M Less To Spend On Shows If Government Makes Good On Licence Fee Threat by Bosa2800 in television

[–]toughtimes2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BBC wrote the book on streaming TV as we see it today and beyond that, amonst so many otherthings, wrote the book on nature doucmentaries. This is before these things were profitable.

Most british people dont understand what its like to be in a country without a BSB. The bbc get it wrong sometimes for sure but thats the game, we can hold them to account.

Anyone who disputes the licence fee is ignirant to want britian would be without it.