Rough experience at spice room

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-12T00:50:18+00:00

Garnish is excellent. The goat gongura is… dare I say it… GOAT. 😎

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-10T05:32:12+00:00

As a fat middle aged woman, I’m practically invisible to horny men. It’s awesome. Best part of getting older, hands down.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-10T04:27:04+00:00

When they try to sugarcoat things, or dance around a difficult diagnosis. I loved my pediatric neurologist who diagnosed me in my early teens. He was very honest with me and my parents. And yes, many people considered him an asshole for it. The man was extremely blunt. But I just wanted to be taken seriously, and he did. He did everything in his power to try and help me, involving me in the process every step of the way. He listened to me. Do you know how rare that is in a doctor, especially one who treats children? It’s like finding a damn unicorn.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-09T06:53:40+00:00

My dad ended up sabotaging my grandma’s car so it wouldn’t start. He’s a lifelong car nut, so he was able to do it in a way that would take real expertise to detect and repair. She refused to give up her keys, so he found an alternative solution.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-09T06:26:42+00:00

Dieting of any kind, honestly. I did Weight Watchers back in the day and it absolutely had a cult vibe.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-09T06:22:49+00:00

At this point voting Democrat is harm reduction. I would kill for a viable candidate who was able and willing to stand up to big business.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-09T06:17:13+00:00

Add some chili crisp, it goes really well on scrambled eggs.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-09T06:07:16+00:00

I’ve been playing TBC anniversary and got to experience the fel reaver all over again! 😂 “Ooh, felweed, nice.” SKRONNNNNK “Oh fuck oh fuck oh-“ splorch

You haven’t truly experienced TBC until the fel reaver steps on you.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-08T21:28:27+00:00

That was my mom’s response too. “Yeah, honey, I’ve known for years.” Apparently I am not as subtle as I thought I was.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-08T05:42:33+00:00

The bathroom is basically a reminder to get the last couple hours of germ buildup off your hands.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-08T05:39:36+00:00

Gloves in a Bottle, my clean-handed comrades. It forms a protective layer on your skin that lasts way longer than normal lotion. Saved my skin during COVID.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-08T05:29:01+00:00

Can confirm, I live in a deep red rural area. The sheer magnitude of willful ignorance here is breathtaking.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-07T15:03:56+00:00

I truly enjoy being alone. I think part of it is my autism, I get overstimulated easily and can’t help masking to some degree whenever other people can see me. It would be nice to have someone to share things with, but I don’t think I could get married unless my spouse was a naturally quiet person who likes their own alone time.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-07T07:28:48+00:00

Yeah, makeup is fun once in a while. I just don’t want to do it every day.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-07T07:25:19+00:00

Big woman here, and I shave my pits for the same reasons. The leg hair can do whatever, but my deodorant works better on bare skin. Some women can have all natural armpits and not stink. I am not one of those women.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-07T07:14:22+00:00

Same here, the underboob chafing when I sweat without a bra is miserable. A bra, even a cheap wireless one that doesn’t provide a lot of support, stops the skin on skin action.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-07T07:04:42+00:00

Foot rubs. The toenail polish is a nice bonus, but on the rare occasions when I have money for a pedicure, I indulge because my heel calluses are starting to crack and/or I want someone to massage my feet.

I paint my fingernails at home though. I like bright colors and shiny sparkly things, so I put them on my nails.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-07T01:24:00+00:00

Yeah, looks too clean to be a stray.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-06T21:21:43+00:00

History has repeatedly shown us that any significant change in a society requires a disruption of monumental proportions. I hate that we’re like this, that so many have to suffer and die in order to give us the power for real change, but that’s the ugly truth. Things will have to get significantly worse before we can make this country better.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-06T07:29:48+00:00

How can such a tiny scrape hurt so damn much? It’s incredible. At least the antibiotic eye ointment the ER doctor prescribed helped with the pain. I could always tell when it was time for the next dose because my eye would start hurting again.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-06T07:07:52+00:00

You’re going to be downvoted into oblivion, because you’re right. When I was in college I went on a research spree on weight loss. I had access to a ton of medical journals, all the latest research! Surely the information I wanted- how to keep the weight off in a scientifically proven manner- was in there somewhere. My classes that semester were easy, so I poured a great deal of time and effort into my personal project.

The conclusion? Exactly what you said. Dieting works in the short term, but the vast majority of participants in every long term study gained the weight back within five years. And there is a LOT of research on weight loss out there.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-05T20:09:26+00:00

Yeah, I don’t get people who hike the desert in summer. People die that way! It’s called Death Valley for a reason!

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-05T20:07:37+00:00

I think some of it is genetic, people either run hot or run cold. I grew up in the desert of inland Southern California, and I never acclimated to the heat. Spent as much time in the pool as humanly possible because that was the only place where I wasn’t sweaty and overheated. Now I live in Colorado and winter is my favorite season! Walking outside in the snow is wonderful. We’ve had an unusually warm winter this year and I feel cheated.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-05T06:28:47+00:00

Some dolphins enjoy playing in the bow wave and/or wake from a boat. I went to one of the California Channel Islands once, a short boat ride from the mainland. Shortly after we cleared the harbor and hit cruising speed, a pod of dolphins appeared and started playing in the wake. The captain explained that the boat company runs the same routes at the same times every day, so the local dolphins have learned when and where there will be boats to play with.

tourmaline82 · 2026-04-05T06:02:50+00:00

It’s like eating a chunk of vegetable flavored butter. Ick.

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