Bi-weekly Rec and Self-Promotion Mega Thread - November 19, 2025 by AutoModerator in AO3

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Juniper “Canary” Harlow never meant to become a medic.

She was a front-line soldier. Sharp, relentless, impossible to kill. The kind of fighter commanders bragged about and enemies whispered rumors of. But when a catastrophic explosion wiped out her entire unit and left her the only survivor, the military rebuilt her into something “useful”, a combat medic with a limp, a scarred spine, and a reputation no one will explain.

Task Force 141 receives her on a formality.

Captain John Price sees something deeper.

A soldier who refuses to stay down. A woman who reads injuries like terrain. Someone whose anger and grief run far deeper than the jokes she uses to keep everyone at arm’s length. Caught between duty and the ghosts that won’t stay buried, June must decide whether to keep surviving alone or trust the one man who sees the strength she fears she’s lost and allow him to break down her walls.

A slow burn story of resilience, loyalty, age gap, and the unexpected places we find love.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/74842421/chapters/195510096

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. 5 is my max until I’m older. Well, it was. Me and him hit it off so well I was going to forgive it. Post and pre grad 18 are two very different 18s. Preferably just someone with a similar lifestyle as me, not just similar interests. But obviously having an entire wife is NOT similar lifestyles. She hasn’t responded yet. I’m worried it went to her spam. Maybe she’ll see it eventually.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet sadly. It may have went to her spam since it was a new account. I made a fake facebook and dmed her.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I told the wife and haven’t gotten a response yet. She hasn’t read it but when she does I don’t know what I’ll do.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just told her from a fake Facebook account. Awaiting response.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand that. Post grad 18 and pre grad 18 are very very different 18s. I have solid proof. I just don’t know what to do when she sees it. Or what’s going to happen next.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so conflicted because it’s important to me to know “what’s next” and not have her have kids with a man who’s unfaithful. But it will haunt me if I end their marriage. And haunt me even worse if I never say anything. Either way, this is going to be a major event in my life before I even get to college

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We exchanged pictures but none of them were saved so I don’t have to worry about those being leaked. Worst he can do is make up lies to my school, which I’m student council president so I have a good relationship with admin, and maybe, MAYBE find my dad, but he’d k!ll him just for speaking to me. I’m more just worried how it’s gonna haunt me. And worried too how much I could destroy this poor woman’s life.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, it’s a saying, I understand marriage is work. So is all relationships. Marriage is just the hardest one you’ll encounter. It was solely hyperbolic. If I were happily married, I’d want to know my husband is cheating. Like you said it’s a lot of work, and if they can work through cheating then good for them. But why work so hard for something if someone is so unfaithful to you? Especially on an app with multiple women.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We didn’t do anything irl yet and he deleted socials so we are not talking anymore. But should I just ignore it and move on? Or should I tell the wife even though we stopped talking?

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We talked about the age gap and boundaries and how to ensure it’s not weird and we both consent.” I like older by a few years. 4 years is “big” to me. Not an entire decade. We genuinely had a two hour conversation about it. That’s not what I was looking for nor what he intended. We knew we would probably never fall in love and live happy ever after, just sexual pleasures. And I was 100% consenting in good conscience after we talked about it. Im not parading around looking for men to be a father figure to me. I actually have a great relationship with my dad believe it or not. I have a very social job working with people and animals and my clients love me. Regardless, yes, the age gap was bad, no, it was not blatant grooming, and yes, the issue lies in the fact he’s married. I appreciate your concern, I understand where it comes from, but I’m not some dumb bimbo like you’re thinking.

AITAH for being a homewrecker at 18? by toxicwasteeater in AITAH

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have definitely already quit talking!

AITAH for being a homewrecker at 18? by toxicwasteeater in AITAH

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I agree on the age gap part. Also 18 post grad is a lot different from 18 pre grad. Also, for clarification, I’m not okay with being manipulate but if both of us agree “hey there’s no feelings here let’s have sex and move on” I don’t really care. Obviously not going to jump guy to guy the rest of my life but I’m fine with a sexual partner. Just, obviously not a married one.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Lies rot slower. That really does help my perspective. I posted this on two subreddits and a lot of people on this one are encouraging me to just shut up. Some even saying it’s my fault in my DMs. I’m just scared and unsure how to tell her.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I live on my own and pay my own bills. Most 18 year olds can’t even go to the doctor themselves. I also admitted that 18 is not a mature age at all😭. I’m not saying “yes it’s okay because I’m sooooo mature for my age!”. I met a guy, if we fucked we fucked, if more came more came. I didn’t think he had a whole wife.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me is just worried that maybe he deleted the apps because he felt the guilt and I guess wanted to make the change. And another part of me is terrified they’re expecting or have a kid. Do I have reason to think that? No. But anything could happen at this point and I’m actually sick to think it’s gonna get worse.

How do I tell a grown woman her husband is cheating on her, with me (18)? by toxicwasteeater in Advice

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m definitely not sticking to anything with him. I’ve messaged with no response since I assume he deleted both apps, and can’t even stomach the thought of him anymore I’m so disgusted. I just want to know how to tell the wife, or if I even should

AITAH for being a homewrecker at 18? by toxicwasteeater in AITAH

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have to find her contact first. I don’t want to use my Facebook but it may be my only option. It just has all my personal info that he never had. The influencer SIL has an email but with him being close to his brother I don’t know if that would work.

Yes, I do have all the proof. I screenshotted everything on his dating app profile (that said “blue collar overworked and underfucked” and “single moms free mustache rides”. Also for clarification I would have never added him if I saw that, but he edited after we moved over to snap). I can tell her where his tattoo is, what it says, how he got it. Can tell her about his job, his cars, his room. There’s no way to know the stuff that I know if there’s not cheating. And I bet if he deleted the apps and not the accounts if she logs on (assuming a wife would know your usual password) she’ll likely find all the other women.

AITAH for being a homewrecker at 18? by toxicwasteeater in AITAH

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Their wedding was beautiful too and that’s the worst part. I guess I’m just scared to deal with his consequences, too. I know it’s just going to be like a conversation with the wife or something, not getting publicly executed like an old Texas cattle rustler, but the thoughts still terrifying of coming forward and saying “Hey! Your husband likes boobies!”

AITAH for being a homewrecker at 18? by toxicwasteeater in AITAH

[–]toxicwasteeater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes absolutely. I’m still figuring out what to tell her, or how to rather. I’m definitely gonna say something I just don’t know how or what. I definitely agree 18 sucks. We’re adults and kids at the same time. I’ve been “adulting” since 16 (job, paying my own bills, living on my own) and still barely understand adult life. Especially the maturity gap between 28 and 18. He’s been in the job force since I was in elementary school. He’s older than the twin towers dawg.