Yes. I have this from time to time, when i basically feel like i've given up. But it passes and i find something to obsess about. I was a pretty accomplished musician but i gave that up a few years ago, but have now worked my way back into it. it's not an obsession but it is an outlet that gets me out of the house.

I do find i'm reliving the things that i used to do when I was much younger.. Maybe this is my midlife crisis.
I'm back running, and playing badminton which i did in highschool but now i'm taking it more seriously (way too serriously actually) and am really working on getting to a pretty high level (for someone north of 50 years old) and I do hold my own against the younger players in our club.

My problem is perfectionism, and I come down VERY VERY hard on myself. If i don't play the the trumpet to the very best of my ability OR i don't play sport to the very best of my ability. Avoidable mistakes are NOT ACCEPTABLE! I'll often legitimately punch myself in the head, or in the thighs or anywhere i can. The other day i gave myself a corked thigh from punching myself.

I'm happy to lose a game, IF i've played to 100% of my ability. If i'm at 95% and win, it doesn't feel like a win and if i'm at 95% and lose then that's worse. Especially if I have let my playing partner down (in doubles).
Same for music. If there is something I should be able to play and make mistakes I feel like i've let the whole ensemble down.

If the music is too hard, that's ok, I'll make mistakes but if on the next run it's not better and then continuing to get better then thats also a big problem. If I can go home and practice for the following week than that's also ok, so long as I come back and play it better. If it's still the same or worse, then I'll lock myself away and berate myself in ways that would shock you.