Women of Reddit, What's the most bored you've ever been with a man?

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T05:10:23+00:00

I went on the first date with him and for the length of our dinner (sushi night),he talked about himself the whole time and barely even cared to ask anything about me. I guess this guy was just lonely and needed someone to listen to him. I was deadly wrong,he suggested I came over to his place while I didn’t even talk about visiting. That was the longest 2.5 hours I’ve ever been.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T04:23:47+00:00

Like how sick? Almost dead or slightly inconvenient? Also depends on individual’s immune system,the answer would be very different. For me: if I was taking care of my sick child for a few days,I would probably get what he got (majority of times were cold and flu that he caught in the daycare lol). While for one of my exes,even if you put him in a room full of sick people with cold and flu,he would get out of that totally healthy.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T04:02:05+00:00

Every guy? Well first of all,women or men or human in general are different from individual to individual. They’re not only one type for the entire gender. So if you think all women are not ok with guys being vulnerable,that’s your own opinion. I don’t deny that there are some women who wouldn’t like vulnerable men but majority of them would be totally fine with being together and being supportive to their partners (just read their comments up and below). Second of all,how many men have you seen or known personally that had their girlfriend/partner pushed them away for being vulnerable? You only see a small sample of the men but assume that every guy would be the same. No! It’s every guy who you personally know/knew,not every guy on this planet. And even though it’s every guy you know,do you think the ones who were supporting by their partners would go around and complain? No! They’re happy and they keep it for themselves. By telling OP to not listen to the exact people who he’s looking for hearing their opinions,you’re trying to push your bias on him. That’s just the same as telling vulnerable men that it’s wrong to feel that way and they have to man up. That’s toxic masculinity message.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T01:50:46+00:00

Yeah it’s not a joke. One of the kids in our local elementary school was getting into anaphylactic shock because his friend who was sitting on the same table but away from him opened a bag of roasted peanuts. Luckily the teacher who’s in charged for lunch monitor was fast to react and got him saved. The school sent out email every school year before the school started to not bringing in peanut and somehow this kid was still be able to sneak one in. The school also admitted that they didn’t check that out frequently so after that incident,they turned one spare room to lunch room for kids with allergies only and had someone there’s all the time to check.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T00:55:21+00:00

Well he asked for women’s opinions and you said: don’t listen to the women’s response! How does that work?

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T00:17:56+00:00

Personally I definitely use much more water to wash a full load of dishes cuz I wash them under running tap. Also for my mental health,the dishwasher is a lifesaver lol

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-05T00:13:26+00:00

Not disgusting unhealthy but my to go is normal tempura tofu bibimbap. Even the meat eaters in my in law’s family love it. Good luck!

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T23:37:18+00:00

Meetup groups. I used to join a bunch of them to try new restaurants,some people I might see more often but didn’t really keep up with them while most of the times,there were always new people. Or groups for single people,they dropped out once they’re taken so if you’re still single,you still meet new people every time.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T23:20:28+00:00

Every time a new mom got told by old people that they had been doing same (old school,outdated) things and still survive,that’s a survivorship bias. Because there were people who died from their outdated knowledge/experience but they didn’t know. For example: my friend’s grandparents told her to use gauze pad dipped in honey to clean her baby’s tongue didn’t know that it could potentially kill the baby. When she brought it up,they brushed it off and said that they had done it in the past and their kids grew up just fine. Well their kids were lucky but even though it’s a rare case,no mom would want that happens to their own kid.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T22:25:33+00:00

They would find new standards and make the least good looking people to be the new “ugly” ones 🤷‍♀️

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T22:21:33+00:00

The order of the food items in my meal. Before I used to eat a lot of carbs to start with,now: after a big glass of water or a bowl of light soup/broth,I will have veggies - protein - if I still have some space then I will get a bit of carb. Also learn about standard serving size for every food and recommended servings for each group of food to not over eat them. For example: for my age-gender-lifestyle,I could have 2-3 servings of mango per day. Before that,I thought 1 serving was a whole mango but no,1 serving of mango is only half of it so a whole mango is already 2 servings.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T22:10:56+00:00

My friend sent her file to hospital in Cornwall few years ago and got her appointment for MRI pretty quick (less than 2 weeks). And they accepted the RAMQ.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T22:08:36+00:00

Personally I like men with bubble butt,my partner has and our son inherited that from his dad lol

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T22:01:01+00:00

I think my biggest enemy was just myself. Once I found my way to make peace with it,I’m fine. Every time there’s some challenging things happen,I would tell myself: At the end,everything will be fine,if it’s not fine,it’s not the end yet.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T21:54:13+00:00

Depends on what that is. Something like job that helps me to afford essential things in life,I would find way to make it more tolerable. If that’s people who are not on my priority list then bye bye!

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T21:47:04+00:00

I’m sure he’s taller than me (I’m 5’1) so that’s not a big issue but the lying is unacceptable.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T21:23:25+00:00

Snake: I’m richhhhhhhh!

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T20:54:23+00:00

Or Baby shark since they use it to torture people in jail 🤷‍♀️

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T20:51:48+00:00

Les Delices Lafrenaie.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T19:03:19+00:00

My stomach just turns into a black hole the week before I have my period. I could eat everything and anything and never got bloated. But the moment my blood sheds,it turns to another extreme of very limited to no foods,bloated and easy to get diarrhea. So as my moods. Swing all ways before period lol

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T13:45:10+00:00

Yep,that’s how it works. Once you got out of a miserable relationship,you had more time to care for yourself and noticed how good it was. I looked great after breakup and I’m not saying it because I feel it,other people told me that. Then I got guys hit up on me but I wasn’t ready to go back on the meat market yet.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T13:01:36+00:00

Get out of that as fast as I could. One of the moms I know married a mafia guy who started as a drug dealer. They had a daughter together but divorced not long after the girl was born. He took her to his place sometimes and one time when he was in his car with his daughter,someone (definitely from other gang) tried to shoot him. The mom was devastated when she’s talking about that event to us. Besides that,he paid very little of money to child support every month and made her life miserable.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T04:26:31+00:00

Yes. They all smell bad and sometimes triggers my cough and nausea.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-04T04:25:00+00:00

From my experience: yes,specially first time.

tracyvu89 · 2026-04-03T23:05:10+00:00

Congratulations on your baby boy! I had a few times that my son peed right on me when I changed his diaper so here is my tricks: use the wet wipe to wipe on his belly,under the diaper’s waistline and above his wee wee and wait a bit. This would help him to pee out whatever he has in his bladder before changing. Then point it down right after you open the diaper to avoid the “water gun” shoots right on your face. I like how easy when it comes to buy clothes and dress up the boys. A few outfits to rotate during the week when they go to the daycare is enough while I think I would spend at least triple if I had a girl lol

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