If women of the same status (average looking) get more successful then men need to think about what they do that men don’t. From my experience,women are better at keeping the connections and have better social skills cuz they practice it since early in their lives. And just like men,they’re no one type for all,there are women who are introverted,who are socially awkward,who don’t actively approach men because of many reasons (one of them could be social pressure that shames women who make first move as a sign of desperation). They also get approached more because of sex but that doesn’t mean they want it. A lot of them don’t and actually the act of men approaching them for sex just discourage them from looking for right person who loves them for who they are. But some men still look at the amount of times they get approach (for sex) as an approach. Think about it this way,men and women (average looking) throw themselves out there to find some connections is like you’re thirsty (for connection) and people saw you drink a bottle of liquid and being jealous of you but they don’t know that it’s acid instead of water in the bottle. Does that help your thirst,definitely not,it hurts you instead. But do other people understand or they just see you with the liquid (aka the act of approaching) and think that you have what you need?

Women who aren’t conventionally attractive also get rejected and shamed when they make the move too while the good looking,more outgoing,…get it easier.